"canned" "you'll have an idea of the happiness that martha breeds most of us put the search for love at the very center of our lives and yet it's a subject on which philosophy and strangely silent give me a few of our experiences for you" "life-changing philosophers taken of very seriously subject it's probably better left to poets hysterics and shot shows some daytime tv but it was one of the loss of did take a lot very seriously as one of our central concerns" "self-assured image admittedly bother on romantic is the one philosopher who seems to understand the intensity of what we feel when you fall in love he thought we were absolutely rights to build our lives around la nothing else in life" "was quite a simple but it's taking full remained mystery mansion that happiness anything to do with it himself i cannot do this anymore you know you on sunday that you know it's marry some family in me to continue anymore" "and saying that innovation ship expecting a i do know that after he was happy and seem to have the hardest right it in speech positively situation does not feel right at any time next month to teach acting it's a lot to talk about the right one to you know you from a" "terrible so and then get p_s_ peace and tranquility obsession and i haven't seen those faint incidents so what was the first reaction when you when you retire soon says would you say i tell my seven in christ" "you've got a lecture michelle hutchison's boyfriend if four years left this letter along with all the things from his flat in a plastic bag reception where she worked the decline call him did you today i didn't have any way i get in touch with him" "they hide it and you see on this today one st enough time for this is that i i comment win my myself as the situation i call make him on the fact that that's a worksheet clear that he doesn't want me come a bit more about him i mean what what's it" "like was the to what warps question me to think time we met three uh... friends mind that a fitting nasty and uh... changed east system costing anti petty meeting on fast eight how come uh... because it was busy summarizes sectors outfits might spree" "and he said come down three campsites never left embattled christmas stuff tonight answer living there and was a kind of legendary love at first sight ages laid eyes on him he was the last three uh... especially one all campus fails and i just felt" "said comes with him due to think that he loves you weekdays so in that case i think this letter if you don't you proceeded the lovely that love is enough is it at first glance it's hard to believe there should be home" "pretty understandably individual is going through or have anything helpful to say to anyone in her situation he never married lifted learned and was often bitterly misogynistic he'd go to frankfurt and take a look around the chopin how archive with are consistent keeper of the ship in higher" "inflamed installed their amongst the role of the poignant bits and pieces of shipping how is life you begin to get a picture of a man who truly deserves the title philosophies doctor love for me trip how was born in ten seconds seventeen eighty eight" "who spent most of his life here in frankfurt from an early age he looked lost happiness he was intelligent confident good-looking enough to his father died when he was seventeen extremely rich cigarettes good success with women polluted take naps wasn't sick" "and that's the earliest mexico these folks and we have within with instructions for gotten discussion questions functional description on parts situation on spot on and he's a house more optional optional and how old is he doing consensus one twenty-one and he's he's writing speeches are evil" "is writing his thesis his he's trying to his interested in women strive to meet and has problems but i i talk to you if you guys to opt not finalized yet played out in their twenties if your title as it does i" "think that's yes but i think they're coming out soon thank you for a small philosopher which without make it into a series of small man hunch swift columnist to the these are the letters from from kalamazoo mtns" "in eighteen twenty one at the age of thirty three he did meet a woman who liked him nineteen-year-old singer called caroline the door but he was never comfortable enough relationship to settle down hirschmann money in the hospital so she was very warm did not see a bomb has to go home of the experts have" "choices achieved you fell in love with him and they had a child together job she was very keen on an average uh... but exiting he told him to two people to get married institute everything possible to come objective" "discussed to one another mine instead btl toward woman axes after ten stormy years the relationship broke up tripping how continue to search for loans without the less success dated thirty one he developed a passion for fewer files a beautiful spirit it go" "who just turned seventeen during the boating party in an attempt to charm check-in has started talking to her about his philosophy he smiled and offered her a bunch of grapes so related confided in her diary i didn't want to" "i felt revolted because ownership in the home touch them selecting slides quite gently into the water behind him" "towards the end of his life he did enjoy contentment of sorts within a tractor school transcended meyer of his philosophy elizabeth nine who came to frankfurt to make a bust of him but it was hardly the culmination of the happy romantic life so young authorship" "and how had rentals she's quite pretty did he like them this expanded subroutine newton paper or recipient best-equipped unicycles so far combines the christopher feats of strength and we're happy time went went from this address was making this" "portrait of himself turned him deadlocked on the socks on the surface coffee to go and they behave like a married couple set and uh... citizen like this portrait of his visual high level of the city's all played pretty much all of his friends" "his notice that there was a disparity between these heads which it looks very nice to have a seventy one-year-old and the body which looks like a sort of athletic b uh... items by the safety of as though he was a twenty one-year-old" "paramore so had to choose from and to pick up his philosophy having to think twice to tell us about life first started tells us that love is not a trivial subject we shouldn't see it as a distraction for more important to grown-up concerns" "it's no accident that love is such an overwhelming emotional they can take over our lives and fill up every waking moment and should have alleges is not to be too hard on themselves for the session and disbanded contrivance to win it was wrong" "to be surprise but how much rejection hurts is to ignore it just was exceptions if involved nothing in life is more important than love because nothing less in the survival of all species is at stake" "we all to myself stories about love we imagine when we fall for someone but we're finding a partner who's going to make us happy which our parents or it very differently means he thought that we put ourselves through the self-conscious phone calls and" "expensive candle lit dinners for one reason for me an overwhelming biological dr to propagate the species the will to life last visit canoes designed by biology to push us towards having children however romantic we'd like to think we aren't we are told essentially slaves of" "the will to life and testified it's the pic every friday instruments people flocked to night clubs like this it shape and has kind of place he hated loud noise known exactly why so many of us might want to spend or evenings" "although it might be deep and comfortable for us to accept although it violates rational self-image although it's deeply on pc to say so we'll all julia by blind biological functions to the purchase" "have richard ka summit office haryana connected to the dot com a the hello does this seven kansas depends don't one to see what reproduce generation went to the question are you that whole subject have taken place wasn't actually driving the walls but it looked like an effective has to remain" "on the was the one who opposes the take-home reproducing the next generation post throughout heart the asteroid here first of all of our you might win objected to the last thing on your mind would you ask someone for their phone number in a bomb" "is having a baby picture of the house insists that this was precisely was motivating house unconsciously the very moment went to young people fancy one another should be considered as the birth of a new individual his theory explains the tend to see" "with which we feel two into the people we fancy certain individuals and office" "with profound dismissed residuals is one p m one-half why do we fall in love with the people need to do huge numbers of people leave this cold even though they may own paper be perfect for us and just to strangely" "we find ourselves falling in love with other people might be quite tricky delivery japan how it happened on set whenever we fall in love with someone we do so because the unconsciously since they'll help us to make roughly" "well-balanced children notice nothing more than our will to life discovered someone who thinks will make an ideal this lecture compound twosome interesting thoughts about the rules of attraction were driven to fall in love with people who will cancel out any imperfections we" "may have and so in short that all children know proportioned union unstable of mind direct all people who tend to be drawn to short people to that their children who in turn out to be joints and people with big chains will be attracted to people with small chins so" "that that children students will be read to you even believed that this search for a balanced extends to skin color at the natural human color solutions and how his ideas might seem a bit fanciful now and wouldn't necessarily put in charge of the dating agency" "and their those sorts of emotion homosexual relationships which he moves out bombs generation before darwin and some sixty years before frogs he was the first to point out that there are largely unconscious biological reasons one before the month" "philosophy saves on child from having enormous cheema excessively shopping s_I_ to the person to make us happy for a lifetime the pursuit of happiness and the production of children onto radically different projects which lost maliciously confuses us into thinking" "off as one for as long as it takes to spore must bring up the kids only much later as all healthy well-balanced offspring kicking a ball around the garden who really wants to be painful will divorce or passed family dennison hostile signs" "shipping haha offered us a stark choice it seems as if in making a marriage armies of the individual all the interest of the species must come off badly left no doubt that he thought it would be the individual would suffer most" "on happy in life is welcome news to university tracking how withdrew into a modest general mistreating friends and should have horses becoming didn't beat insidious you missed isn't pizza and in an otherwise quite miserable life one of his choice was music ornithological haven't our proceeding" "on something like that can you play confusion and i don't have the stalled middle english is one policies and it's finished ship provided a copy couldn't manage such a nascimento these are his marks is now hebrew almost comically pessimistic" "advising his few readers to swallow toad every morning to ensure that they wouldn't have anything more disgusting in the day ahead yes yes plus went over to quito ecuador is here community stands he wrote must be kind of para" "he may be said of his expat today's everyday will get worse until the worst of all happiness symington decisions which is an on-site unsafe trustees configured safer trusting fear of inflation the the mutual preparing chicken house closest relationships" "would now with the succession lavished affection on them even called one of them actor off to the world songs to prominence interdiction interesting and welfare towards the very injured his life his ideas did finally begin to find an audience his last book a somber" "collection of philosophical essays inaccuracies became an unlikely bestseller philosophically minded frankfurt is began to bite totals in homage to him the brain center of attention often used in the light falls on on his that is the most important part" "resembles a finalist designs was not his one contributed to the city your times have changed uh... high-techs fay vincent nyo last week cairo attempts crafts fair but he has little time to enjoy the attention and develop more cheerful thoughts" "in eighteen sixty pollster awarded by the banks of the river mind with his beloved brutal shipping how returned home complained of breathless miss and died isn't going to make this world he said that i would not like to be the cold" "its misery in distress" "it might seem odd to say the trip in how i could have anything helpful to tell us about life given that he was such a misery himself but i think he has some very consoling things to say he tells us that we simply have no choice but to fall in love" "biology is strong within reason and so we're not on happy by accidents in essence we just like all of the creatures in soon were impelled to find a mate just born offspring and to bring them up and only a force a strong slumped could get us to do so" "shut them out to the particular interest in very ugly creatures which is like moles in our books and these wild walking piece interested in was the way that these creatures live stock extremely hard they have to uh... survive very harsh winters" "fiftieth in uh... horrible to underground caves and this should remove look rather like to have to miss ones yet but doesn't stop them trying very very hard to reproduce in fact we see a couple of the senate" "wild monkeys having their reproduction over them and uh... he thought we should take a listen from our own behavior from these creatures which is that we devoted to reproduction without necessarily thinking about happiness or other we think we're doing this for happiness but rather like monkeys were doing so" "because we have to because of the will to life if reproduction makes the sun's if we don't feel the marriages have gone well we shouldn't or lessen from these creatures here in the case and they're doing it not for happiness because they have to because of the will" "to live trip home has another message about last which i think is particularly helpful for us when we've been rejected we often called understand why apartment has ended a relationship and take it extremely personally worship in hotels this when someone dumped sauce it's not allstate their" "rejection it's not that we're on laughable it's just that there will to live thinks that they'll be able to produce more balanced healthier children with someone else and someone else will come along who's will to life think sweetpea ideal for" "that purpose even if only because on the news and then there's who make a desirable combination we might have been happy with the person who rejected us but nature wasn't and for that reason we have to learn to let them go" "it you'll go out with a different kind of man xx let's say you haven't been out of anyone today to the floor didn't bite just horrific just weighty panic thought of risking everything on it again and i gave so much inside a ship that i i" "combinations was it the most important thing in your life you us yeah i would've given a exiting whatever who would move country we've cut she i did that might tell that she left my job i would've done anything anything more notes that he told" "contractors huge shocker i think one nice thing is if someone else you and then they reject you you tend to think they've known my personality in a message out in the senate and accept no guarantees horrible and a m procedure casual constituted deep called and they said no" "and think what should have senses in a way they have only take a casual oscars really what they're looking at is not your psychological self but is it a little biological self his innocence the end of most relationships" "occur in the conscious mind as i no longer fancy discussing and what that really means is they're not really right for me for children and at that level it is very animal as we must interpreted consciously and let's not take passively by contact person i want" "it's essentially descent catching it is tragic a tragic but maybe a waitress this is certain consolation in becoming aware of the tragic forces of nature that in a way concede summarized iraq might be an american looking down on the world of the world" "this is the crazy world we live in the traditional fuel is that this couple will live happily ever after the cynical morton few is that the doomed to recrimination and a quick divorce trip in town horses to consider a different view" "but happiness is simply not the point anymore than it is to put the consul monuments antidepressants rolled up to three years from the kinds of expectations which can inspire bitterness it's consoling win office made is sound to hear that happiness" "he's never really thought of the plan baucus thinkers can sometimes paradoxically beating his children one last wish is my is asked me to ask you which is finally free for dinner tonight"