"Hey, look who's here." "Hey, Dad." "Aren't you gonna kiss me goodbye?" "Apparently not." "Do you see how rude he is to me?" "It's terrible. I'll talk to him." "l wish you would because" " Wait, Alan!" "Oh, oh, sorry." "Alan, have you been badmouthing me?" "Badmouthing you?" "To whom?" "To Jake." "Oh, to Jake." "No." "Why?" "His attitude towards me is disrespectful." "I have to wonder where he's getting it from." "I assure you, I make it a point to speak well of you in front of our son." "What about your brother?" "Oh, with Charlie, I'm completely honest." "That is not what I meant." "I know." "Hey, Judith." "Have you said derogatory things about me to Jake?" "No, why?" "Did you want me to?" "I don't understand his behavior." "Ignoring me, avoiding me, acting like I'm the enemy." "But you get why I'm doing it, right?" "I got it!" "I don't know what to say." "He's not getting it from us." "Absolutely not." "lt's your mother!" "You talk to her." "No, I talked last time." "Choose you for it." "Odds." "One, two, three, shoot." "Odds." "You talk to her." "No." "Hey, but you said you were gonna-- -l lied." "Leave a message at the beep." "Beep!" "I wish there were a better way to deal with Mom." "There is, but we're both too pretty for jail." "What?" "What?" "Mom's here." "Charlie, did you hear me?" "Yeah, I just prefer to live in denial." "Come on." "We talked about this." "We need to set an example." "Fine, tell Mom I love her and-- l don't wanna give her my cold." "That is not going to help." "Well, you gotta say it in front of Jake." "No." "Here is the plan." "We'll stop acting like we hate being with her..." "... stoptakingshotsather, andstart  acting like we love and respect her." "All at once?" "Come on." "Your Uncle Charlie thinks I don't see him..." "... butGrandmommyseeseverything." "Mom, we didn't expect to see you today." "I have to come unannounced because when I call first..." "... there'snoonehome when I get here." "I imagine that's only because my cowardly sons are trying to avoid me." "She's ruining the plan." "Well, the important thing is we're all here, and we're happy to see you." "Right, Charlie?" "Oh, happy isn't the word." "So, what's new, Mom?" "Well, if you really care... ." "We do, we do." "We do." "Next Sunday, I am receiving my gold blazer..." "... fromthe Westside Realtor's Association." "l am so proud of you." "That's great." "Me too, Mom." "It's the highest honor the real-estate community can bestow." "l am so proud of you." "That's great." "Me too, Mom." "So I wanted to talk to you about the presentation ceremony." "We'll be there." "Tell us where and when." "Well, next Sunday, 5:00." "And I was hoping we could have it here." "Here?" "Why here?" "l mean, we love and respect you... ." "But why here?" "This isn't really a good house for parties." "Yeah, it's so big and close to the ocean." "Yeah." "Come on. I can't very well throw a party for myself." "This way everyone will get to see how much my sons love and respect me." "Anyway, here is the guest list, and also a suggested menu." "Nothing fancy." "Cocktails, buffet." "Any questions?" "No." "Good." "Okay." "Big kiss." "Love you all." "Love you too, Mom." "Bye, Grandma." "Relatives, huh?" "Can't live with them, can't turn them in for the reward." "Excuse me, Berta, but we happen to love our mother very much." "Right, Charlie?" "Right." "Jake, look." "There's a pelican on the deck." "Oh, cool." "Are you happy?" "Now we have to throw a party for your crazy-ass mother." "She's your mother too." "How do you know?" "l could've been adopted." "You wish." "I do." "Now, what about this stupid party?" "Here." "Maybe this'll help." ""Daisy's Fishing Tackle and Live Bait"?" "Turn it over." ""Daisy's Classy Catering. "" "She's my sister." "Her husband left." "I'm trying to get her back on her feet." "She runs a catering business and a bait shop?" "Not at the same time." "There's no pelican." "Hey, you Charlie?" "Maybe." "Who's asking?" "l'm Daisy, the caterer." "Your Berta's sister?" "Same mom." "Dad's a little iffy." "Berta said if I wanted a shot of your bourbon, I had to ask you." "Yeah, sure." "Knock yourself out." "Thanks." "I don't usually drink before noon, but I'm going through a rough patch." "Well, that's why they make bourbon." "My husband left me for another woman." "You know how I found out?" "To tell you the truth" "Relax. lt's rhetorical." "They waved to me as they drove my house out of the trailer park." "That's sad." "Yeah." "I had that doublewide 1 1 years." "Larry was with me for four." "Six months of those were house arrest, so you can't give him credit for that." "You know, I haven't gotten up to pee yet." "Let me tell you something." "Larry was nothing when I met him." "He was working at some kosher slaughterhouse out in Fontana..." "... beforetheyfiredhim  for being mean to the cattle." "What?" "The Jewish laws dictate that the animals have to be treated kindly..." "... beforetheygetwhacked." "Larry would taunt them." ""Hey, hamburger, guess what's gonna happen to you. "" "Anyway, I picked him up off his sorry, unemployed ass." "I gave him hair plugs, contact lenses, teeth." "The bastard dumped me for this tiny, little Korean manicurist..." "... whohuffsnail-polishremover between appointments." "Well, you give a guy hair and teeth, he's bound to hook up with trash." "No, she was pretty hot." "She had a spray-on tan, Botox up the yin-yang." "Couldn't tell if she was 20 or 60." "Daisy!" "ln here!" "What the hell are you doing?" "Relax. lt's not what you think." "We're just having a drink." "Good idea." "You listen to me." "Just because I got us this job..." "... doesn'tmean I'm cooking by myself." "I'm coming down there." "And don't act like you're doing me some big favor." "Oh, excuse me for trying to help my broke, homeless, baby sister." "I'm not homeless. I have a home." "I just don't know where it's parked." "I wouldn't be broke if you'd have paid me my share of Mama's estate." "What estate?" "It was a shoebox..." "... fullofcornpads, used lottery tickets and insulin." "It's the first I'm hearing about the insulin." "Excuse me, but shouldn't we be, you know..." "... cookingsomething for my mother's party?" "Hang on, Charlie." "You know, I am sick of you insinuating that I stole all that crap Mama left me." "She didn't leave it to you." "You were just the first one back after she flatlined." "Oh, and where were you?" "At some ashram in Oregon?" "I was learning from my guru how to channel my spirit guide." "Oh, please." "You were humping a defrocked priest in the woods." "How about stuffed mushrooms?" "Everybody loves those." "You know, that's your problem your whole life." "You chase after losers, take care of them, fix them up..." "... andthentheyhop on the first manicurist out of town." "You're jealous because I've had love in my life." "Yeah?" "You know what you got in your life now?" "Squat." "No husband, no one to do your nails, and blocks where your house used to be." "I swear to God." "One more word and I'm gonna knock you on your keister!" "Okay, okay, there's no reason" "Squat!" "That's it!" "Whoa, whoa, no!" "No, whoa!" "Stop!" "Berta!" "Berta!" "Give me the rolling pin." "is there a special place you'd like me to put it?" "I don't know what else you want from me. I took you in." "Gunther's in the garage, so you can have the couch." "You spoil that dog." "Anyway, I'm staying at a motel tonight." "Good idea." "Maybe you'll meet your next husband on the walk there." "Can I have one of these?" "No." "I am just trying to be a good sister." "No, you're trying to make me feel like crap." "It's what you always do." "So I can eat this?" "No." "Let him have one." "You don't know this kid." "He never stops at one." "He eats like a refugee." "Eat it." "Drop it." "Hey, how's it going?" "Not good." "Nice move, Tinkerbell." "Shut your hole and help me pick this up." "You pick it up." "I'm going outside to meditate." "What's going on?" "l'll tell you what's going on." "You wanted that clown to be nice to his mother." "But did you think to say to him, "Clown, be nice to your mother"?" "No, we had to throw a big party for our mother..." "... cateredby the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling." "That's it. I can't work like this." "Well, you have to, Berta." "We've got 50 people coming in a couple of hours." "Don't tell me." "Tell her." "Fine." "Watch this." "Hey!" "I'm meditating here!" "Jake, let's go pick up Grandma." "Charlie, you're in charge." "The hell I am." "Why pick her up?" "Grandma likes to drink." "When grownups drink, they don't drive." "Good thing Uncle Charlie lives here." "So, good luck. I'll see you tomorrow." "No, wait." "Berta, you can't leave." "Don't worry." "Your deposit's fully refundable in fishing tackle or live bait." "I don't want a refund." "I want you to make up with Daisy..." "... sowhenmy mothergetshere ,she'll have something to eat besides my soul." "Make up with her?" "For what?" "Trying to help her?" "Trying to keep her from making the same stupid mistake again?" "Yeah, sure, fine, whatever." "Just do it!" "No, I'm done with her. I quit." "Berta" " Berta, you can't quit being related to somebody." "Believe me, I've tried." "She is a spoiled, little princess..." "... whodoesn'tknow when somebody's trying to help." "And you know what else?" "Hold on, hold on." "I'm still trying to wrap my brain around "little princess. "" "Ever since Mom spit her out, she got everything she wanted." ""We don't need to fix Berta's teeth, Daisy needs singing lessons. "" ""Why spend money on a prom dress for Berta..." "... whenDaisyneedstap shoes?"" "That's rough, but" ""Who cares if Berta needs her spine straightened?"" ""Daisy wants a nose job! "" "What if you went ahead and made a couple dozen of those little egg rolls?" ""So what if Berta's got an extra big toe?"" "Mom?" "Oh, hello, boys." "Why aren't you dressed?" "We came to pick you up." "So you can drink." "Oh, yes, well, I've decided to pass on the party." "What?" "You can't pass." "We've got people coming, decorations, caterers." "And that's how you're dressed?" "Beats the hell out of a bathrobe." "Why don't you wanna go to your party?" "Please, it isn't a party." "It's a sham." "None of those people are my friends." "Why would you think that?" "Believe it or not, Alan, your mother is a very sensitive woman..." "... andI canfeelwhenpeoplearoundme know that I hate them." "Why did you want us to throw the party?" "Oh, why does anyone want a party?" "To feel superior while feigning humility." "Don't touch that, Jake." "Let me tell you something." "The way you treat people is the way they treat you back." "Miserable bastards." "But putting that aside, you're getting a gold jacket today..." "... andwewanted to share that with you." "is that what it takes?" "I have to win an award for my sons to notice I'm alive?" "Okay, you know what?" "Go, don't go. I don't care." "If you wanna sit here and stew in the venom and bile..." "... thatisthesoupofyourbeing,  then fine. I hope you drown in it." "Don't you ever talk to your mother this way." "Forget the party." "I'll go back and tell those people..." "... thattheguestofhonorcould not be bothered to show up." "Come on, Jake." "Oh, dear Lord." "Alan, wait." "If this silly, little party means that much to you, I'll go." "Just let me get dressed." "Oh, gee." "Thanks, Mom." "God, I hate being guilted into doing things." "And after all that, the loans, the bail, the kidney l gave her..." "... whicheventhoughitwasn 'tmine , was still money out of pocket..." "... didsheappreciatemysacrifices?" "I'm guessing no." "She threw them away on chasing after men with drinking problems..." "... menwithgamblingproblems, men with wooden legs and glass eyes." "You wanna know why?" "Spare parts?" "Low self-esteem." "I remember when we were little girls..." "... shehadthiscrush on our cousin Jimmy" "He wasn't really our cousin." "He was" "Stop, please!" "Enough." "If you won't talk to her, I will." "Finally. I was running out of stories." "Daisy?" "Can I talk to you for a minute?" "Daisy is no longer inhabiting this earthly vessel." "Excuse me?" "I am Oxyquatzal, warrior priestess of the Aztec people." "Okay." "Let me ask you something." "Do you know how to make those little hot dogs wrapped in pastry?" "Listen carefully." "I have a message for Daisy." "Really?" "She's wandered off the path of destiny." "She must return." "Alrighty, is there a number where she can reach you?" "Tell her to follow her bliss..." "... tostopsquandering the gifts of the Great Spirit." "Got it." "Do you need to write that down?" "No, I got it." "Path, bliss, spirit." "Great Spirit." "Sorry. "Great Spirit. "" "Anything else?" "No, that's it." "What do you want?" "You're screwing with me, right?" "Get out of here." "I'm trying to channel my spirit guide." "OxyContin?" "Oxyquatzal." "How do you know about her?" "Oh, boy." "Berta!" "Was Oxyquatzal here?" "What did she say?" "She said that the guests are gonna be here soon..." "... soyoushouldmakeup with your sister and finish cooking." "No, she didn't." "How do you know?" "Oxyquatzal is a 500-year-old Aztec warrior." "Do you think she really cares about your dumb-ass party?" "Everybody likes a party." "What did she really say, Chachi?" "She said that you have strayed from your path and to follow your bliss..." "... whichiscatering,right?" "No, I never liked catering." "I only got into it because the bait business was so damn competitive." "What else?" "Something about squandering the gifts of the Great Spirit." "Oh, man, that is heavy." "For an ancient chick, she is so spot on." "Well, no sense crying over squandered gifts." "What do you say we go to the kitchen?" "What's the point?" "My life is hopeless." "My dreams are dead." "Yeah, but what if they weren't?" "What do you mean?" "Oh, I don't know." "What if there was some way I could help you?" "You think you could whip up some rumaki then?" "You don't even know what my dreams are." "Oh, come on." "Work with me, baby." "I don't even know what rumaki is!" "Oh, gosh, Alan, I don't know about this." "ls my hair all right?" "Mom, your hair looks perfect." "You're impeccably dressed, you're fashionably late..." "... andeverybodyis waitingfor you ." "So, now, come on, let's walk in there and rub their noses in your success." "Well, all right." "Alan." "What?" "You're blocking me." "Rumaki?" "I will never, ever forgive you for this." "One thing." "One lousy thing I ask from my sons, and this is what I get." "Sorry." "Sorry." "Not only was I roundly ignored at my own party..." "... butI listened to a disturbed caterer belt out..." "... theentirescore of La Cage aux Folles." "Sorry." "Sorry." "You should be sorry." "We are." "Then say it." "Sorry." "Sorry." "Hello?" "Jake, honey, ready to go home?" "Mom, you're here. I love you." "Wonderful." "Teach him sarcasm." "Thank you very much." "Sorry." "Sorry." "Subtitles by sdl Media Group" "[english]"