"A FILM BY NILS MALMROS" "Pain of Love" "Come on..!" "Hurry up!" "It's here we usually hide it." "Give me the lid." " The can!" "Give me the can!" " Hurry up, before they see us!" " Where should we hide?" " The beach." "We'll run to the beach." "It's here." "It simply has to be here." "Dig." " It's just paper." " Isn't there any treasure?" "Number 1:" "Lars." "Number 2:" "Preben." " Number 3:" "Haakon." " Can I see?" "Number 1:" "Erik Borre." "Number 2:" "Preben." "Number 3:" "Haakon..." "It's their boyfriends!" " Wow, a nice conch!" "See." " Here's one with a hole in." " We know who your boyfriends are." " We've found your list." "Number 1:" "Preben." "Number 2:" "Lars." "Number 3:" "Soren." "Number 4..." "It's not boyfriends." "It's just the ones we like." "Then what about this one?" "Number 1:" "Lars." "Number 2:" "Preben." " Give it back." "It's secret." " Who writes with a pen?" "We'll not tell." "You can't guess it." "I know how Kirsten writes." " That's a strange "G"." " That's because it's cursive." "Haakon with two A's." "Do you know how to skip stones?" "You take a rock like this one." "Then it has to spin in the air." "No, that was no good." "It's very important it spins in the air." "No, that was no good either." "Kirsten, try to ask Gert what his dad does." " Gert, what does your dad do?" " What?" "What does your dad do?" "That's because his dad hung himself." "You have to eat something, right?" "There." "Can you eat that?" "Some day you're going to like it, right?" "Then it would be a shame if you didn't notice it." "There." "You can fill up with potatoes." "Or you can have a cheese sandwich." "It has bones in it." "No, that's nothing." "You can just remove them." "Like that?" "Mom!" "Aren't you coming to tuck me in?" "Yes, I'm coming." "Good night, sweety." "Can you sleep well?" " Have you remembered to brush your teeth?" " Yes." "Why did Gert's dad hang himself?" "I don't know, Kirsten." "I can't know anything about that." "But when I tell you to be nice to Gert,   then it's because I tried the same thing as a child." "My dad didn't want to live anymore either." "That was why I didn't have a dad when I was little." " Did he hang himself?" " No." "He ate a lot of pills and died of that." "Were you very sad?" "Kirsten, it's so many years ago." "I can almost not remember it." "But I remember that grandmother was sad." "And I was sad because I didn't have a dad like everybody else." " Yes, you may enter." " Soren, have you brought our essays?" "Yes, I have." "Well,just go inside." "Can the last one close the door?" "Just sit down." "It's always Interesting to receive the first essays from a new class." "And I must say that they're alive and vibrating." "It's very, very good." "The only problem is that your phrasing can be distracting at times." "It's surely not so bad." "Can we have our essays?" "Bad?" "Torben..!" "The only real man in the class." "You've written an amusing essay against the women's movement,   and you're perfectly entitled to do so." "But what can I say to this:" ""One almost wishes oneself back to the good old days,   when the woman's place still was in the kitchen pots. "" "That's pretty good." "It's almost in accordance with my views." " Very well, Torben." " Are there more good ones?" "Yes, there's a whole collection." "But I don't know how sensitive you are?" " No, we're not that sensitive." " All right, we'll take another one." "Here's one." "Someone has written about the students' workload in high school." "I'll promise not to mention any names." ""At times one has to work day and night for several hours. "" "It's my mother who has written that." "Send my regards to your mother and tell her that there's a seat next to Torben." "Who'll then write my essays?" " Hi." " Wow, I was so lucky." "I was almost chosen in math at the moment the bell rang." " Are you coming home to me?" " Yes, if I can study." "I have to study." "I'm guaranteed to be chosen tomorrow." "I'm crazy about my new Danish teacher." "He's incredibly charming." "I think it's annoying when the teachers are titillating the girls." "Stop it." "I just said that I think he's charming." "He's also very competent." " Kirsten, are you together with Anders?" " Yes." "Anders, would you care to look at the washing machine?" "Something is wrong." "Anders, please do remember that you have to do homework." "Something is wrong with it." "It'll not spin." " And It's turned on?" " Yes." " What program are you running?" " The first." " What are you reading?" " About third degree polynomials." "That small X, is that the same as the one over here?" "And there?" " Yes." " And there?" "It's full of X's." "Stop it." "You're disturbing." "It's just someone like that I've always dreamt of marrying." "Anders and Kirsten they lay in bed together and two small golden rings and 46 beds jump as high as you love him or sit down in shame do you love him?" "yes or... no?" "So!" "You're teasing but when push comes to shove you're not willing." "No, wait a moment." "I just need to see something." "When I look you really deep in the eyes, " "I can see both the cones and the rods." "I don't know whether you saw the chess puzzle in the newspaper last Sunday..?" "It was quite peculiar." "It actually reminded a little of our last game." "I think the only difference was, that black has two rocks on the same file   and a bishop covering the king." "But you had a queen and a rock." "But you were not able to move the queen because of the pawn." " I also had a knight." " It was very much the same arrangement." "Anders have helped me fix the washing machine today." "It was only the soap dispenser drawer that couldn't be closed." "There's a small peg that has to be pushed in." "Some scale residue can form so it cannot get far enough in." "I'll get it." "Yes, it's at office manager Holger Andersen." "Yes, he's right here." "Yes, I'll call him over." "Anders, it's for you." "Yes, it's me." "Yes, I know that I've forgotten to call." "No, we're having dinner." "No, I was invited." "I've been studying the whole afternoon." "When we've eaten." "Yes." "Goodbye." "I have to go home when we've eaten." "I could try to come back a little later." "Anders!" "Anders, come over here." "Anders!" "This kind night time prattery is completely unacceptable." "Take your bike and drive back home." "Good night." "What's your first class?" " It's physical education." " And the next?" "It's English." "Is it very Important that you attend the English class?" "No..." "I guess I can skip class." "Why?" "Because I don't think you have to hurry so much." "It's about time that we go to the doctor and get a diaphragm for you." " Don't you think?" " Yes." "Then let's agree on that." "You don't have to put curls in your hair because you're getting a diaphragm." "Hello." "I just need to know how many you'll be." "I don't know anything about that." "Ask the president of the gymnastics club." "But we need two rooms in the teachers' cabin." "Do we have time to go in the water?" "Is there anyone who wants to go swimming?" "Anders, are you not game?" "Well... how do you like it?" "I remember that there's more light in the room next to this." "Then I'll take this one." " The mattresses are quite good." " They're also completely new." "And I've brought a couple of candies." "So you can have it a bit cosy." "Thank you." "That's very considerate." "No..!" "That's miserable but I'll run anyway!" "Throw!" "Throw!" "That's cheating!" "You can't run with the ball." "That's cheating!" "Oh my, how Kirsten is cheating." "She runs with the ball." "Yes, and she's also queue-jumping." "Just watch now." " Whose turn is it?" "is it me?" " She does it every time." "Thank you for the dance." " You don't need more beers." " Come on." " Can I have wine?" "I'm fed up with beer." " That's terrible." "How much do you want?" " This much." " All right, that's a deal." "No, Kirsten..!" "I don't even have that much." " But then this much." " Then you're not getting anymore." "Okay, Kirsten." "But then it'll cost you a dance." " There, you won't get any more." " That's fine." "Time's up." "Soren, do you know you're my favouride teacher?" "No, I wasn't aware of that." "By the way, it's called favourite with a "T", not with a "D"." "You know what I mean." " Am I also your favourite student?" " Yes, Kirsten." "Definitely." "It's not much you get for a glass like that, huh?" "Next time." "We need Orff instruments to do that." "Handel's "Messiah"." "Oh, it's so good." " Who have taken the corkscrew?" " It's in the pantry." " We don't have enough sopranos." " We have seven." "Oh, you do have another bottle?" "Yes, sure I have." "No, Kirsten..." "Have you already drunk the glass I gave you before?" " Yes." "It's pouring down." " Then you'll only get a small glass." "Oh, Soren..." "Shouldn't we pretend that we're sweethearts." "Look at me and tell me how cute I am." "Kirsten?" "You're very cute." "Aren't you pretending to be Anders' girlfriend too?" "We're just good friends." " Soren, I owe you a dance." " Yes." "You know what, Soren?" "This is one of the reasons why I don't bother with these weekend excursions." "I'm so sick of seeing the young teachers run after the girls." "It's too easy." "You can keep it all to yourself." "I'm going to bed." "Stop it, Inge-Lise." "Everybody is happy and having fun." "I take part in that." "No..." "I'm perhaps just a little disappointed." "I thought there was a reason why you wanted to bring me along." "There is too." "It's enjoyable that you're here." "And the principal preferred that a female teacher came along." "Yes..." "That too." "Right?" "I wouldn't like to be in the way of anything." "So I think you should go and enjoy yourself with your little girl friends." "shouldn't we go in and dance?" "No..." "I'm going to bed." "See you in the morning." "Good night." "That's grand." "Stop, it's ringing false." "We'll just try again." "That one needs more." " Look at my shoes." " Sorry." "I think it's fine now." " Won't you give me a little more?" " No..." "Now it'll ring false." " Just to cover the bottom." " Now it has gone three notes down." " Sorry." " Are you ready?" "Here it comes." "Okay, go on." "Well, Kirsten..." "Now you'll get a last small glass of red wine,   and then I'll go to my room and enjoy the rest." "Then what will happen when I've drunk this?" "Then we'll see what happens." "What room are you staying in?" "On the right or on the left?" "On the right." "Inge-Lise is on the left." "Ali right, can you have fun and don't get too drunk." "Good night." "Say hi to Inge-Lise." "Yes?" " Can I come in?" " Yes..." "Yes, of course, Anders." "Come in and have a seat." "Perhaps you were expecting someone else." "But I've come to ask you to stay away from Kirsten." "What do you mean?" "Anders, sit down." "Sit down and tell me what's wrong." "You might not think that it matters but my father is a bus driver,   and it's difficult for me to hold on to Kirsten." "Her parents are nice." "But she's just given everything and I simply can't compete with that." "And when even my own teacher is after her then I can't handle it." "Anders, I can see what your point is." "But you're what you make yourself to be." "Independent of what your father is." " That's easier said that done." " I don't think so..." "But are you having trouble with Kirsten's parents?" "No, on the contrary." "They're only happy that she has a permanent friend." "And Kirsten?" "Does she know that you're here?" "Yes." "But if I hadn't said anything, she would probably have gone here." "Well, Anders." "Any irreparable damage would likely not have come of that." " Would you like a glass of wine?" " Yes please." "Get in here so we can see you!" "Oh, how pretty you look." "Anders that's a very elegant jacket." "Can I have a look..?" "Try to stand next to each other." "You're really complementing each other." "I wish it was me that was going out." " Promise to have a good time?" " Yes." "Thank you." "Mom, can I borrow you ivory bracelet?" "Yes." "Have you looked upstairs?" "I think it lies in the drawer under the mirror?" "Happy 19th birthday." "Take care of it?" "Not too many dints." "I will." "Good evening." "A table for two persons?" "This way." " The menu, here you are." " Thank you." " Do you want a drink before dinner?" " Yes, that sounds nice." " A martini?" "Two martinis?" " Yes please." "I've just received the papers about the engineer study in Aalborg." "You need an average a little over C. You needed that this year anyway." "No, wait a moment..." " Your birthday gift." " Thank you..!" "Oh, it's very nice." "Thank you." "Try it." "It's almost a real Ronson." " Yes, it's very nice." " What are we having?" " Have you found anything good?" " Shouldn't we take two of today's menu?" "It's shrimp cocktail, veal medallion and pear Belle Helene." " Where do you see that?" " It's there." "Pear Belle Helene..." "It's favourable if you also find a study in Aalborg." "Then we can live together." "I would like to study medicine." "You can't do that in Aalborg." "I don't think you're suited for that anyway." "That's just because you're afraid of all those smart young doctors." " You should rather choose nurse school." " There's also smart young doctors." "Yes, but not before you've graduated." "Two martinis." "There you are." "There you are." "Have you decided?" "Yes..." " What's the house wine?" " It's a lovely Cotes du Rhone." " We'll have that." "And two todays menu." " With pleasure." "Thank you." "Even though it's my birthday, you should also have a gift." "God..!" "That was nice of you." "You can probably guess what it is." " Does that mean that we're engaged?" " Yes." "Well in a sort of way." "It's sensible to have a little security in each other." "Anders is written in one if them and Kirsten in the other." "Try putting it on." " What did they cost?" " 95 kroner." "Including the names." "Hello Kirsten." "You're bringing your essay?" "That's good." " You were able to find my house?" " Yes, that was quite easy." "I would also like to talk with you." "If you have the time..?" "Yes, of course." "Can we do it out here?" "There's a terrible mess inside." " What is it?" " It's kind of personal." " So you would rather go inside?" " Yes." "All right..." "Please." "It's a bit messy as you can see." "You talked with Anders." "And now he have given me an engagement ring." "But I just don't want to be tied in that way." "I've never said, that I think, It's a good idea for you get engaged." " I can't be blamed for that." " You've talked about our relationship." " About what he should do." " I've said some general things." "About being honest about who you are and having faith in yourself." "And that he should have faith in you." "So you've never suggested that we should get engaged?" "Not the least." "That wouldn't have occurred to me." "Then it's me who have misunderstood something." "Sorry." "It doesn't matter." "But is the ring a problem for you?" "Yes." "Kirsten, have a seat." "Then I'll make a cup of tea." "You can sit here." "On this." "Even though it's a bit messy there's still room for you." "Anders and I had a pleasant talk ... In the late hours." " Can I try your piano?" " Yes, of course." "Nice." "What do you play?" "I don't play." "Inge-Lise does." "It's her grand piano." "She's moving in as you can see." " Are you moving in together?" " Yes." "No, Soren!" "That disappoints me!" "I wouldn't have thought that about you." "You're way to good for her." "She'll be all worn out in five years." " Do you even know her at all?" " Sure." "She's extremely dull." "Don't you think about how she'll look in five years?" "Worn out and saggy tits." " In five years I'll be bald." " That'll only suit you." "You don't match." "You should have someone who's brighter and nicer." "She's so damn grumpy and self-righteous." " Are you getting married?" " No, we don't plan to." " Is she here?" " No." "She has an errand in town." "You mustn't tell her I was here." "You have to promise me." "Yes." "It isn't prohibited to visit me." "I don't want her to know I've been here." "Will you promise me not to tell?" "Yes, of course." "It's not a problem." "Aren't you going to have tea?" "No thank you." "But why?" "Is there someone else?" "No, I still like you." "But I think you should take it back." " But it was a gift." " Yes, but I don't want to have it." "I just can't understand it." "If you're saying that you still like me and there isn't someone else,   then why aren't we going to be together?" "I need to be myself." "I would like to try being on my own." "Kirsten, if we break up now then it'll never be us two." " I thought we would have children." " Anders, can't you understand it?" "I don't want to be tied." "It's too early." " Then it won't be us two." " No..." " Is there something wrong?" "Is he sick?" " No, he just doesn't want anything." "Why doesn't he?" " Perhaps there's trouble in Paradise?" " Yes." "You're just sitting there silently." "I can't guess your thoughts." "Anders, we can sleep together." "But then you have to leave afterwards." "Yes..." "What's she writing?" ""Dear Soren." "On the occasion of I'm having exams and my 22nd birthday, " "I'll throw a gigantic party,   and as the first person, I wish to invite my lid favourite teacher. "" ""The party is held in Pejsestuen at the dormitory on June 14th at 19.00. "" ""There'll be an orchestra and entertainment. "" " And I'm not invited?" " No." "No, I'm probably not in the category of "favourite teacher"." "No." ""Love Kirsten, stud. ped. erot. "" " Student, pedagogy and eroticism?" " That's what's written." " Which one should I choose?" " Well, it's your choice Kirsten." " Which one is good?" " I think they're all good." "Piaget's theory if development..." "No, I don't want that one." "No, Kirsten, when you have turned the card it's final." " Piaget's theory of development..." " Well, then what?" "Yes, Kirsten." "Piaget's theory of development." "It's something about some stages and some phases." "1: the sensorimotor period, 2: the preoperative period,   3: the concrete operational period, 4: the formal operational period." "Yes, that's good enough." "Can you say more?" "I also know Freud's and Erikson's theories." "Shouldn't we stay with Piaget?" "You knew the four periods." "Yes, they were written in the flyer." " The flyer..?" "I'm not following." " Yes, that note we were given." "That paper with notes on It." "You can just fold it and out the window it goes." " You're meaning a paper plane?" " Yes, yes." "A paper plane." "I hope you're not throwing all your notes out the window." "Well, but Kirsten, tell us a bit about the second stage." "That's the age we're dealing with." "It's all in the book." "The most important thing is that we know where to find it." "I have fine reports from a trainee-ship." "It's most important to be nice." "Yes, that's true enough." "But a little theory is also good." "It's also written in my notes that Freud is for psychology as yeast is for dough." " Is that written in your notes?" " Yes, I've added it myself." "You said that at a lecture." " One of Hermansen's pearls of wisdom?" " Yes." " Have I really said that?" " Yes, at a lecture." "And this hasn't much to do with Piaget ... Are you nervous?" "No." "Examination is a party." "And examiner is also invited." "If he wants to." "It's on Thursday." "Yes..." "Kirsten?" "Well, it wasn't so good." "It isn't enough only to know the notes." " So we cannot give you more than Five." " Five?" "But I knew so much else." "Yes, but you didn't know very much about what you were examined in." "But you were laughing all the time." "Yes, because you were evasive and didn't tell us what we wanted to hear." " Can't I get another question?" " No, you only get one chance." "Perhaps you ought to cancel that party and read a bit more for your next exam?" " Yes, who's next?" " It's me." "Did you get a Five?" "What's that supposed to mean?" "That means I've failed." "I knew nothing." " But why?" "What were you examined in?" " Piaget." "But haven't you read?" " Yes..." " And so?" " I only knew the notes." " That was a shame, huh?" " What are you examined in next?" " Art." "I'll fail that too." " You've made all my assignments." " I helped you because you asked me to." "But, Kirsten, why haven't you been studying psychology?" "You knew what you were going to be examined in, right?" " Yes." " What have you been using your time on?" "A not of other things." "Listening to records." "But you can't do that when you have an exam." "Then you can't concentrate." "What about art." "Is there some theory you need to know in that?" "Yes, a book." "It's lying at the dormitory." " And have you read anything in it?" " No." "Then you just have to get going." "Or you can come home a couple of days and then I can try to help you." "And it doesn't need anything else?" "No..." "So perhaps you're done?" "Yes." "Hello." "I was supposed to come to Kirsten's party,   but I can't really figure out where it's at." "Oh, God, that too..." "Come inside." "Kirsten, there's a visitor!" "Well, we're not so happy today." "Kirsten was at the exam and failed." "She was examined in art and got an F." "And she had already failed psychology." "To graduate she only needed to pass one of the two courses." "But she failed both." " That's bitter." " Yes." "So I don't know what kind of party she has been fantasising about." "Frankly speaking, I don't know what has gotten into her." "Hello Kirsten." "I understand that there won't be any party." "That's not so good, huh?" "No." "The exams didn't go so well either?" "What..?" "What are your possibilities for a reexamination?" "It doesn't matter." "I'll fail anyway." "What course do you have the greatest chance of passing." "Art or psychology?" " I'm no good at art." " So the best chance is in psychology?" " What book are you using?" " K. B. Madsen." "You know what, Kirsten?" "If you want to make an effort - and read up on your psychology, - then I'll guide you an hour every day." "But it requires that you make an effort." " I'll fail anyway." " Of course you should accept it." "It's a fantastic offer." "I can't help you." "I don't know anything about it." "And little Peter, who prefers to stand in a corner and look at the others." "And little Ase, who prefers to hide herself in the curtains..." "If you then try to persuade Peter to join,   then he'll block even more." "He'll simply say no to it." "Let the tea infuse for a while." "Or perhaps is good enough?" "Yes, it seems to be good enough." "I'll just take a cup." "The eye looks in that direction." "It recognises the world and adapts to it." "That's what's called an accommodation." "If you draw the arrow in the other direction then it's an assimilation." "That means that it's the environment that's adapting." "We have an accommodation and an assimilation..." "It's not just all the things you see but also what you perceive and sense." " Why is it circular?" " It's a symbol of everything outside." "You should take it nice and easy." "You can't fail." "You know way much to be able to fail." "Answer nice and easy." "Don't panic." " No." " Have a nice trip home." "Good night and good luck tomorrow." "Piaget's theory if development..." "But it's the same as last time." "Yes, it's a pure coincidence." "That's your luck." "Yes, it was something about some periods." "What was is about them?" "1:" "The sensorimotor period." "2:" "The..." "The preoperative period." "3:" "The..." "Yes, that's fine Kirsten." "You knew that last time too." "But let's hear something about the preoperative period." "When is that?" "From two till... till five years." "No, that's not completely accurate." "From two till... seven years." "But there are two sub-periods." "Yes, that's right." "Let's hear a bit about those." "Oh, let me pass, let me pass, let me pass..." "Let me pass, let me pass..." "Yes, Kirsten..." "You've passed, but only just." "You get a D. Congratulations on your graduation." "That's the best D I've ever gotten!" "You are so kind!" "Examiner should have one too!" " Kirsten, congratulations." " Thank you." "I'm just so happy." "Everybody must get a hug." "You too." "Oh Soren!" "What should I have done without you?" "I would never have figured out all that about assi..." " Accommodation and assimilation." " Accommodation and assimilation." " What have you been to the exam in?" " Psychology." "And I passed." "Oh, congratulations." "Bent, we need five Jagermeister's." "I should congratulate you from Inge-Lise and give you these." "That was sweet of her." "They're pretty." " Here's Jagermeister's for everybody." " Is it on you?" "Thank you." " Don't you want any?" " No thank you." "I have." "That's the guy Lasse from TV." "I've seen him on TV." "I know how you live." "You have a seagull in the ceiling." "Isn't that right?" "A real seagull that can fly." "I saw that at the hairdresser." "You have a wife, daughter and dog." "With curtains." " It's a sheepdog." " It has long fur." "If you don't want it, I'll take it." " Such fine red nails you've gotten." " They're pretty, right?" "But you're mistaken." "Lasse doesn't have a wife." "You didn't know that, huh?" " That's not true..!" " The wife and daughter have left me." "He's lonely and abandoned as a shipwreck in Kattegat..." " And what about the dog?" " The dog too." "And the cat." " You didn't know that, right?" " And the seagull?" "The seagull is still there." "Bent, I think we need another round." "Come inside." "Then you can see whether it's resembling." "Can you recognise it?" "One of the photos you've seen was taken over there." " God, you sure live chic." " Yes." "It's exquisite, right?" " I'll just put some music on." " Have you had guests?" "No, it's my wife and my daughter that have gone..." "To an island camp." "God, there's the seagull." " Do you pull the string?" " Yes." "But it's an albatross." "I remember the old dance moves..." "I've also danced at a dance school." ""The seagull's death"." "Kirsten, you also have to see the rest of the house." "It's just as exquisite." "I just need one more sip." "No, wait a minute." "I have to look at that picture." "That's your wife." "And that's your daughter." "I would like to meet her one day." " You can see her room." " Wait." "I'll just take my glass with me." " That picture is very nice." " You looked at it when you came." " What does it depict?" " Nothing." "It's... abstract." " Here's the bathroom." " Wow, that's chic." "And Colgate toothpaste with fluoride..." " What's this?" "I have to see it." " Kirsten..." "That's my daughters room." "She'll be very angry if we go in here." " She's totally mad about horses, huh?" " Yes, she is." " is that circus horses, or what?" " I don't know." "Come and see the rest." " You forgot the broom cupboard." " That's nothing." "Come." " I haven't seen the kitchen." " The dishes aren't done." " Then shouldn't we do them?" " Not yet." "Such chic architect designed duvets..." "It's a long time since it has been this good." "You're sweet." "Just a moment." "I'll be right back." "That one is nice." "No, that's the brown...." "It's no good." "This one..." "Is that for me?" "Thank you very much." "Wow, how pretty it is." "Can't you write your name on it so I know that it's from you?" "I'm actually making a pretty nice colour here." "See how nice a colour I've made." "Can you eat pickles to an English steak?" "I've become crazy about pickles." " Of course you can." " Do you want pickles?" " Yes please." " With pleasure." " Here you are." " Thank you." " How are things at the nursery?" " Oh, it's going so well." "All of them want to hold my hand when we're going for a walk." "You also have such a good-natured and gentle charisma." "If I was a little fellow I would also like to hold your hand." "I think I'll be a good mother." "I look forward to it." "Excuse me if I'm not eating so much." "I still feel a bit nausea." "Kirsten, I would like to make sure that you've thought this through thoroughly." "Have you understood how this will turn your life upside down?" " It's a burden to take care of a child." " You can save our efforts." "I've talked to mom about this." "When others can do it, I'll also be able to." "Then there's also another thing." "One day you might meet the man of your life." "Then it might not be so wise to have such a disadvantage." "If that man doesn't want me as I am and the child then it doesn't matter." "You say so today." "But are you going to say the same in two-three-five years?" "In three-four years I'll have a sweet child." "Then the world will be different." "It's you that's old-fashioned." "And I've made my decision." " Thank you." " Enjoy your meal." " Don't you want some too?" " No thank you." "I'm only saying it to make sure that you know what you're doing." "Your mother and I are looking just as much forward to it as you are." "I wasn't able to sleep last night." "Because I remembered something awful I once said." "I told Soren that Inge-Lise was worn out." "And had saggy tits." "Oh." "No, that wasn't very smart to say." "I'm also sorry." "Can't I write a letter and apologise?" "No, you can't, Kirsten." "He has forgotten about that a long time ago." "It'll only make things worse to stir up the past." "But I'm just so terribly sorry." "I don't want a child after all." "But Kirsten..." "There's a time for all pregnant women when it becomes too much." "That's normal." "It's part of being pregnant." "So just cry a bit." "Won't you please help me write that letter?" "Do you seriously think that we should write to Soren and apologise?" " Did you really ponder over this?" " Yes." "It'll only make things worse." "Nothing good will come of it." "And one more time." "Yes, and try to sit up." "And take a deep inhalation and relax." "And lay down on your right side." "Grip the left thigh with the left hand   and pull the leg up against the body." "The head points toward the stomach." "And then you try to gasp as before." "With five gasps and a long one." " Thank you for a lovely evening." " You're welcome." "See you on Thursday." "Yes?" "What do you want to say, Kirsten?" "Can a child become damaged if you don't get sleep?" "Damage... damage, that's perhaps a bit exaggerated." "But it's important that you follow routines." "Can't you sleep?" " I haven't slept in three days." " Haven't you slept at all?" " One hour perhaps." " That was not much, huh?" "Does your child child move a lot?" "No." "I'm just lying and think about something else." "I think you should talk with your doctor about it." " Kirsten, eat something." " I'm not hungry." "Kirsten, you have to eat your food." "You have to eat something." "Won't you please help me write that letter?" "Stop that nonsense." "It doesn't serve any purpose." "But it's just so embarrassing..." "It's so embarrassing..!" "You've also got other things to think about, right?" "If you don't have any appetite you must force yourself to eat." "Kirsten, listen..." "You must eat something." "You do understand that, right?" "It'll affect your child, right?" "You're totally unreasonable." "You create a problem from of something that isn't." "Kirsten, look at me." "Kirsten, look up at me!" "Mom..!" "Lift the arm..!" "A belt!" "Kirsten, what have you done..." "What have you done?" "I'm just so terribly sad." " I'm calling..!" " Little Kirsten..." "I'm just so terribly sad." "There Kirsten..." "There Kirsten..." " Hi Kirsten." " Hi." "Well Kirsten..." "We've talked a bit with the doctor." "And he thinks you should stay here a couple of days." "Until you get better." "Until you get some sleep, right?" " Do you know where you're staying?" " Yes." "In a ward with two beds." "Yes, there's probably not anything to do about that." "Won't you please take me home with you?" "I promise that I'll never do it again." "But little Kirsten..." "There's nothing we would like more." "But we can't..." "We haven't understood how sick you are, right?" "You have to stay here where there's somebody who can help you." "And we'll come and visit you just as much as you want us to." "If I could just sleep." "If I could just sleep then everything doesn't matter." "We'll be back in the afternoon." "Please try to get some rest." "Little Kirsten..." "Can you be well till then?" "Goodbye Kirsten." "We'll be back soon." "Yes, push as hard you can." "Push harder." "Yes, again." "You can push much harder." "Push." "Push as hard as you can." "Kirsten, you aren't pushing." "Come on." "Push as hard as you can." "Yes..." "Thank you." "The child must get out during the next labour pain." "So you have to pull yourself together and push." "It can't wait any longer." "Right, little Kirsten?" "Then you have to push as hard you can." "And you can just squeeze my hand." "You're allowed to." "Yes, you'll push when I tell you to, Kirsten." "Yes, push." "Come on." "You're not pushing." "Push!" "Push, push as hard as you can." "Yes, that's good." "Come, push again." "Come on." "Come on, Kirsten, push now." "Yes, that's good." "Now it stretches since the head is coming." "It's good." "Now the head is out." "Good, Kirsten." "And then you push one more time." "That's fine." "Methergine." "It's a girl, Kirsten." "Congratulations." "Kirsten..." "You've gotten such a cute little girl." "You bet she's cute." "You may keep her." "Kirsten,just watch this." "I've got a little hungry girl for you." "I have to lift your head up a little." "Then you can better sit with her." "Like that." "Is it comfortable?" "And she has just been changed." "And ready." "There you go, Kirsten." "Now you'll get her in your arms." "You can also get the bottle for her." "Here, take it." " I'll help her." " Yes, that's fine." "I'll pull the curtains meanwhile." "Kirsten, you have to hold the bottle..." " Do you think you can handle it?" " Yes, we'll figure it out." " Won't you please take her?" " Don't your want to sit a bit with her?" "No." "Won't you please help me write that letter for Soren?" "Yes, Kirsten." "I'll do it." "Hi Kirsten." "I have some pills for you." "And you need some water." "Here you are." ""Dear Soren... "" ""I'm sorry I said that Inge-Lise was worn out. "" "No, no, wait a moment..." ""Dear Soren"." "That's good enough." ""Dear Soren"." ""It'll probably surprise you to receive a letter from me today. " Write that." ""It... will... "" " Mom, my hand is shaking." " It doesn't matter." "Full stop." ""However, I feel the need to give you an apology. "" ""... to give you an apology... "" "Hello Soren." "Come inside." "It's good that you could come." "Kirsten is in the living room." "Hello." "And congratulations on Kirsten's child." "Thank you." "Hello Kirsten." "And congratulations on your child." "Was it a difficult birth?" "Did at take a long time?" "I do not know." "It didn't take longer than it usually does." "But it felt like a long time." "Kirsten handled it so nicely." "0h, there's the wonder." "Oh, she's so cute." " How old is she?" " She's seven days old." "And such a small hand..." "Have you received my letter?" "Yes, Kirsten." "I have received your letter." "It's actually the reason why I've come." "I do remember that you said all those things about Inge-Lise." "But you were only 17 and very impulsive." "So I've never blamed you for it." "I've only laughed about it." "I think you should do so too." " Have you said anything to Inge-Lise?" " No." "I've never had the need for that." "Have you seen little Nina?" " Is she not cute?" " Yes, Kirsten." "You've gotten an incredibly cute child." "Have you been out talking with Kirsten?" "Yes." "She's very sick." "Yes." "You know what, Soren?" "That a disturbed young girl five years ago said that I was worn out,   that I'm completely indifferent toward." "And that the same disturbed young girl,   five years later feels the need to nicely apologise,   that I'm also completely indifferent toward." "But that you go out to comfort a disturbed young girl,   because she has smeared me, that I think is too fucking much!" "But..." "She's sick I tell you." "You can also see it in the letter." "It's not a regular letter, right?" "You can't be Florence Nightingale for all your old students." "You can't!" "After all It's Kirsten whom I've helped before." "Yes, exactly." "They're abusing you." "Every time there's trouble they call on you." "Can't you see that?" "You know what, Soren?" "We can just as well face it." "And it might very well be that I use this as an opportunity,   but we've grown out of each other." "I've made my decision." " So I'm going to move." " Yes..." " And you're not saying anything?" " What should I say?" "It's your decision." "No..." "What should you say?" "Soren..!" "When do you begin to make your own decisions?" "And not let yourself be drawn around by others..!" "I've just said that it's a good idea you're moving!" "What more should I say?" "No..." "Fine." "It's not because I'm a big enthusiast for models, but this one is nice to use." "In the concrete example we're working with, who can the helper be?" "Is it a person?" "Is it a troll, a tinderbox?" "Julie?" "No, there's only his own qualities." "His quick-wittedness." " And who's then the opponent?" " The brothers." "It's the brothers, of course, and the suitors." "And the giver?" " That's the king." " That's pretty obvious." "Hi Soren." "I just passed by so I wanted to say hi to you and Inge-Lise." "That was a good idea." "Please, come inside." " It's not an inconvenience?" " No, it's only pleasant." " I'm assembling some bookcases." " Has Inge-Lise moved?" "Yes..." "She has been for some months." " Why?" "Have you had an argument?" " We've just grown out of each other." " Where have she moved to?" " To a flat." " What about her piano?" " She doesn't have room for it." " Are you sad that she has moved?" " Yes..." "A bit." " Hi little sweety." "Are you awake?" " Have you begun in the nursery again?" "Yes, a long time ago." "Hi." "Hi little Nina-sweety." "Come here..." "Hi." "Hi there." "Hasn't she grown, huh?" "Little sweety..." "Oh, I'm so fond of her." "She's just the sweetest child in the whole world." "Hi..." "Hi sweety." "There, little sweety..." "Oh, I'm so silly..." "It's just because I'm so happy." "Isn't she cute?" "I think the both of you are cute." " Hi." " Hi." "You know what?" "You just have the world's sweetest little breasts." "And do you know what you have?" "You have the world's sweetest balls." "Just like to young doves..!" "Do you understand what I mean?" " Yes." " Completely without feathers, right?" "You don't have to spell it out." "I understand it." "Two young doves..." "Scratch my back a bit." "No, write that you love me." "What did you do when Inge-Lise had left?" "I mean at night." " What do you mean?" " You very well know what I mean." "You just so narrow-minded." "I love to tease you." " Did you come by your own hand?" " Whether I came by my own hand?" " Was that amusing?" " Yes, that was very amusing." "Don't we fit well together?" "I tell all the jokes and you laugh." "Yes..." "You're just the best thing that has happened to me in many years." " How many?" " Many." " More than seven years?" " Yes, more." "Good." "This sure looks nice." "What do you want?" " I think I want..." " You can have the last one." " No, I'm typical..." " Physical education teacher?" " No, do I look like that?" " Art teacher?" "Needlework?" " There are many more subjects." " Like finding a needle in an anthill." "Kirsten, it's not called finding a needle in an anthill, but in a haystack." "When I think of a haystack, a young couple is stung by the needle." "I don't get it..." "There was a very particular porter..." "I would like to go down there again..." "He had this habit of..." "He's cute that Viggo." "We're just having so much fun." " I thought as much." " And Pilgard is also cute." "But you're the cutest of them all." "They're allowed to see that a like you, right?" "Yes." " Have you had a not of red wine?" " Yes, a bit." " A bit much?" " A lovely bit much." " Kirsten..." " Hi Viggo." " I think I'm entitled to a dance." " Does it have to be right now?" "Yes, why not?" "I can hear that the gramophone is playing." " Where is it at?" " It's in a classroom down here." " Soren, come and sit here." " There isn't really room." " Then sit on my lap." " No, I'll find something to sit on." "I think it's more important that they read texts they have a relationship to." "But they'll form a relationship to them, when they read them." "That's what we did." "Then it doesn't matter what they read." "They can just as well read catechism." "Kirsten, what did you learn about Claussen when you had Soren?" " About who?" " Claussen." "The poet Sophus Claussen." "I only know a poem about Rasmus the Quacking Duck." "Rasmus the Quacking Duck from Rinkenaes parish went for a ride in his carriage." "The harnessed horse tired from walking, first it went backward, then it went stalling." "So that's what Soren is lecturing in." "You were actually taught about Sophus Claussen when I had you." "I've never heard about anyone that was called Sophus." " Soren, you're exposed." " I know a poem about Peter Mathisen." "Peter Mathisen, rode on the pig across the ice first went the ice..." "No, first went the pig..." "No, first went the ice, and then went the pig." "No." "Peter with the pig rode on Thisen..." "Peter Mathisen, rode on the pig across the ice... first went the ice, then went the pig, and then went little Peter Mathisen." " Exactly." " Cheers." "It's such nice colleagues you've got." "Especially that Viggo." "And Pilgard." "And Fredlund." " Kjeld..." " And Kjeld." "And Inge-Lise too." "Cheers, Kirsten." "Cheers." "No way, that was a good one." "I got her with that." "Both Viggo and Pilgard and Fredlund and Kjeld and Inge-Lise too." "You can see that they're a couple." "Even though he's a bit thin-haired." "I think he's thin-haired." "Hi Julie." "Did it go well?" "Yes." "I changed her around 11, otherwise there hasn't been anything." "I just need a smile, otherwise I can't sleep." "Hi Julie." "It has gotten a little late, so wouldn't you like to take a cab home?" "No, I'm on bike so it's not a problem." "Can I borrow this book about the impressionists?" "I didn't finish it." "Yes, if I've written in it..." "As long as I get it back." " Was it a nice teacher's party?" " Yes." "Rather nice." "It was very amusing." "Especially Inge-Lise." "Did you know that Soren has lived together with Inge-Lise for seven years?" "And conducted serious conversation about students' needs for meaningful poetry." "Isn't that right, Soren?" "It has to be meaningful." "And catechism." "She didn't say that." "She actually said the opposite." "She did so." "And the books of Moses, I heard it myself." " Yes, but she meant the contrary." " She said catechism and books of Moses." " Well..." " Is she your teacher?" " She's my physical education teacher." " Do you like her?" "She's pretty good..." "Can you figure out what Soren saw in her?" " I don't really know..." " No, right?" "But she sure is good at making tea." "Soren remember to pay Julie." "It was really enjoyable." "You just have so incredibly many interesting books." " Just let me know another time." " Yes." "That's nice to know." "I was wondering..." "How many years did you teach Kirsten?" "In high school?" "One year.. the final year." "Why?" " Bye." " Bye." " See you on Monday." " Sweet dreams." "Soren, watch this." " Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday..." " Isn't that a bit early?" "No, on the contrary." "Thursday, Friday, Saturday,..." "Now we've finally gotten rid of the ghost if Inge-Lise." " Soren, aren't you coming soon?" " Yes." "Come In, Soren." "Come on." "Come on, Soren..." "Come." "Aren't you taking your shirt off?" "No, what's that for a limp dick?" "Come on." "There isn't much hullabaloo going on." "You so callous." "No, Soren!" "Dammit, what's wrong?" "It's just, Kirsten, that..." "The more you fool around, the colder I become." "What the hell is there even left of me?" "I can't use high-heels, I can't have my own petty bourgeois taste in furniture." "And now I'm not even allowed to want to sleep with you!" "And I'm not even allowed to have my own imbecile way of thinking." "Now I've definitely lost the desire." "Never mind." "I'm sorry, right?" "It's me that's touchy." "I know." "Why did you choose that Julie as babysitter?" "Why I chose Julie as babysitter?" "I don't really know." "I asked during class and she volunteered." " There were others who volunteered too." " But you chose her?" "Yes." "She's the brightest of them." "And then she runs a fan club." "Can't you see that she idolises you?" "I can't really see that there's anything wrong with that." " Should they see me as dull?" " No, but you're enjoying it." "When you were my student you also idolised me." "But I'm also living together with you." "I would prefer if it was only me who idolised you." "I'll promise not to choose Julie for another occasion." "Are you then happy?" "How many classes do you teach her per week?" "Julie?" "I have her every day." "I'm after all her class teacher." "Does she have a boyfriend?" " I don't know." " Is she talented?" "Yes..." "I think she writes some very heartfelt essays." " And then you write some long replies?" " It occurs." "But they aren't that long." "And then she sits and idolises you." "I think it's disgusting." "What's that for a mood you're in today, Kirsten?" "That's because I didn't sleep properly last night." " What does that mean?" " I lay and thought about Julie." "That's completely unfair." "It is, Kirsten." "Soren?" " What did you talk about on the stairs?" " When she left?" "Nothing particular." "I saw that she kissed you." "Why didn't you say that earlier?" "It's totally harmless." "That's just how Julie is." "There's no deeper meaning to it." "Is it just that?" "I think she's sleeping." "There's no reason to wake her up." "It's because I like you so much, right?" "Can't you understand that?" "Yes." "I will so reluctantly go back to the gutter." "I just become so insecure when I think about that Julie." "You say she's so bright..." "I don't want to have her as babysitter anymore." "Half an hour?" "Haven't you slept more than half an hour?" "I barely dare to ask you whether it's the same problem that's troubling you." "I can't help it." "It's terrible when you're taken prisoner by yourself." "Come on..." "Come on, Nina." "Come..." "This is not working, Kirsten." "Like this, I'm not getting enough sleep either." "Shouldn't we talk to your doctor?" "Or the hospital?" "I'll never go to that hospital." "Never!" "It was the worst experience of my life." "Well..." "Then I don't know what we should do." "As long as I'm not going to that hospital." "I can't sleep." "Won't you please tell me what I should do?" "I'm just so terribly sad." "I don't want to live anymore." "I'm no good at living..." "Kirsten..." "You have duty to stay alive." "Nina only has one mother and that's you." "I'm also afraid that I've eaten too many sleeping pills." " Nonsense." "How many have you eaten?" " 20." " Have you eaten 20 sleeping pills?" " Yes." "Why have you eaten so many?" "Because it would be much better if I wasn't here." "You can't be served with a wife that's of no good." "What should we do, Soren?" "Lie down here." "Just lie down for a moment." " What do you want to do?" " Nothing." "Just lie down for a while." "Yes..." "No, there's more than half left." "Yes, it's at least two hours since." "That's consoling." "Yes." "Well, thank you." "Yes..." "I'll try to find out." "Very well." "Goodbye." "Will I be hospitalised?" "Yes." "Come on, Karen." "It's tea time." "Come on." " Stop that spitting!" " Give me that!" "Stop!" "You're spitting..!" "Stop it, Bo." "Calm down now, understand?" "Bo, calm down now!" "He's not spitting at you, right?" "Stop it..!" "There's so many that think about you..." "Soren has come." "Aren't you then happy, Kirsten?" " Hi." " Hi." " Hello Soren." " Hello." "It's an astounding racket that's here, huh?" "The guy next door is playing the same track over and over again." "It's to go mad from." "That's completely unacceptable." "You're here because you can't sleep." "Right?" "How are you feeling?" " Have you had some sleep?" " No." "Kirsten has only slept half an hour last night." "Is there just as much racket at night?" "No, I just can't sleep." "I'll leave now so you can be alone." "But I'll come back again tomorrow morning, Kirsten." "And you're sure that there's not anything I should bring you?" " You're not missing anything?" " No." "Take care, Kirsten?" " Take care, Soren?" " Yes..." " Who's looking after Nina?" " That's your father doing." "You should never have hospitalised me." "Now our happiness is shattered." " All the good you represented..." " Such nonsense, Kirsten." "When you recover everything will be as it was before." "Oh, if I could just sleep..." "If I could just sleep." "Kirsten..?" "Kirsten?" "We're such looking forward to when you return home." "We're missing you." "Little Nina is also missing you." "Right?" "That really is an astounding racket." "You've really gotten me locked up." "So you can have Nina to yourselves." "You're able to be alone a short while, right?" "I'll return in a moment." "Yes, it's very unfortunate." "The ward is very restless these days." "Couldn't one ask him to turn the music down?" "We're not really able to hear what we're telling each other." "Yes, obviously..." "Then I was also wondering... whether it's possible to make an arrangement   so we care for her at home during the day, and she then sleep here at night." "Yes, that's of course a solution." "But Kirsten is sick." "You mustn't forget that." "Can you mange it?" "Her mother and I can take alternate turns looking after her." "Fine." "Let's say that it's settled then." "But she must be back before 22.00." "Little Nina..." "Yes..." "You're so cute." " Nina is asleep." " Good." "There's freshly made tea." "Can't I take the car myself and then return tomorrow morning?" "Otherwise we need to wake Nina up again." "Wouldn't that be simple?" "Yes..." "But can't you then call when you get there?" "Yes." "You mustn't believe I'm not grateful for all that you're doing for me." "I do believe it's a good arrangement that you sleep out there." "Then I get a bit more energy." "Soren, won't you please some day teach little Nina about mice and bats?" " Because then I'll also join in." " Yes, Kirsten." "I promise you." "I'll look forward to it." "Yes, It's Soren." "Yes." "That's good." "And there's quiet?" "Kirsten, do also call tomorrow before you leave." "Good night." "And try to get some sleep?" "I love you too." "Good night." "Dear Soren." "I'm suddenly so utterly sad." "I do know that you can't understand it, - but I can't cope with it any longer." "Won't you please promise me to take good care of Nina?" "She's the dearest that I have." "I do know that you love me." "And I would also so gladly..." "But I'm no good at being loved." "Love Kirsten." "English subtitles by thunderb"