"MY LIFE:" "Life, for most people, is going from point A to point B." "But not for me." "I've got a point B problem." "Mia, I have your dress." "Give that to her." "Hurry up!" "Yet I'd love to have a throughline to my life - a point B." "Tom!" "For most people, those small, daily trips add up and, little by little, lead to one goal - a unique, ultimate goal." "Like the light at the end of the tunnel." "It's all wonderfully linear." "Over there!" "But not for me." "I always keep changing direction." "Why is my life like this?" "Why is it such a fucking mess?" "CHINESE PUZZLE" "Ni Hao!" "My life may not go from point A to point B, but a novel has to go from point A to point B." "Hold on, let me tell this in order." "I'm writing a novel..." "I'm trying." "This guy's my editor." "He's helping me focus." " You in Paris?" " No, New York." "He's helping me get to point B." " That's New York?" " Yeah." " Really?" " I've been here 2 months." "D'you get my title proposal?" "Yeah." "Why "Chinese Puzzle"?" "Well, I'm taking stock." "I used to think my life wasn't simple." "But here in New York, I see that my old life was really simple." "So, there!" ""Chinese Puzzle."" "Look at me!" "So that is..." "Well, that was my life a year ago." "Okay, everybody look at me." "That's great!" "Smile!" "Tomato!" "Get closer." "Smile!" "No, a real smile." "Tomato!" "You're seeing our last idyllic moments." "I can't stand writing stuff I hate anymore." "Well, you can handle it." "I can't anymore!" "Did I say that?" "Did I say that?" "!" "Stop screaming!" "I never said that." "It's weird to think that for 10 years we had been so happy." "It's really horrible." "To think that that - that there - that can disappear." "You gotta watch out with happiness." "Happiness is disaster for fiction." "Drama's what sucks us in." "Life is drama." "But you wanna be happy in life, don't you?" "Sure, in life." "But I'm talking about stories." "What?" "You see?" "That's a bore." "Problem over!" "Wendy and I broke up 6 months ago." "I don't believe it!" "It's true." "Oh, no, Xavier!" "Don't make the same mistake Dad and I did." "This is horrible!" "But why?" "You made such a great couple." "Everyone reacted like my mother." "I know it's horrible." "I know it's dumb." "But no." "And yet, I tried everything." "What about the kids?" "Nothing could be done." "I don't know yet." "You'll still see them, I hope." " Yeah." " Don't be like your father." "Isn't there..." "I don't know, some effort that will lead you back onto the path of love?" "It's not a question of effort." "That's how it is." "That's life." "You love each other... then you don't love each other anymore." "You change!" "Was it Wendy's idea?" "Yes, but I didn't do much to hold her back." "She went on about how I never wanted to marry her." "Then, this was my fault..." "I screwed up." "I really screwed up big time." "How so?" " Remember Isabelle?" " The lesbian?" "The Belgian girl I met in Barcelona." "How can I sum this up?" "Isabelle's like a buddy to me." "Isabelle's my buddy." "She's crazy about my kids and wanted some herself." "She and a girlfriend almost did it but then they split." "Then she fell in love with an American - a Chinese-American." "The love of her life." "Since they hooked up, all they wanted was to have a baby and move to NYC." "But my buddy was up shit creek." "She cried about it every day." "And when your best buddy's dying to be a mommy..." "It's hard to handle." "Tell me honestly, would..." "Would it piss you off if I help Isabelle have a baby?" "I wish I had a picture of Wendy at that moment." "Just so you could see the look she gave me." "Put yourself in her shoes." "It is kind of hard to swallow." "Even if we don't fuck and I don't cheat on her technically, she can't accept it." "Did you tell her we're moving to New York, that I got a job on Wall Street?" "You'll never even hear about the kid." "I know." "I'll be with my chick." "You won't be a father in the traditional sense of the term!" "I remember her words exactly," ""You won't be a father in the traditional sense of the term."" "The rest happened in a clinic." "The least sexy place on earth." "I hadn't bought a porn magazine since I was 19." "Getting back into that seemed absurd." "And then..." "I don't think it ever took me so long to ejaculate in my life." "Are you crazy?" "What are you doing?" "Get back here!" "It's dangerous to leave the dorm." "Shit!" " All done?" " Yeah." "See you in 20 minutes." "D'you shoot your wad?" "Now it's your turn." "Xavier," "I don't know if this will work but..." "What you just did, I'll never forget." "Never." "I was happy to help you." "I don't think I could have said no." "You're like my chick." "That's great!" "Hold onto that." "The baby?" "No, "You're like my chick."" "I don't know." "I'm kind of ashamed." "Who gives a shit about shame?" "Pounce!" "Shame's great!" "Shame's insane!" "It's a thousand times better than happiness!" "So then what?" "Wendy went to New York for a few weeks to work on a script." "And then, when she got back..." "What?" "Then we schlepped back and forth between apartments." " Let me open it!" " I'm opening the door!" " No, let me!" " Let go!" "Come on, kids!" "Don't start fighting!" "Not every time we go to Mom's." "The worst wasn't Wendy's evasive look." "It was my son's insistent look." "Bye, Daddy." "He could see that Wendy and I were unhappy." "And..." "I could see that made him unhappy." "Bye, Mommy." "Be right there, Mia." "How do we deal with summer vacation?" "Want me to take July or August?" "What?" "Are you crazy?" "Are you out of your mind?" "New York?" "You can't take off with my kids!" "Are you shitting me?" "If you're honest, you just have to face the fact that you've ruined your life." "That's it!" "I'm turning 40 and in fact..." "I've ruined my life." "Your only salvation at times like this" " when you've lost hope and never believed in God - are..." "German philosophers." "For example, Schopenhauer said..." "Life is like embroidery." "You spend the first half of life on the front side, the pretty side of the embroidery." "But you spend the second half on the other side." "It's not as pretty but... you can see how the threads are woven together." "You can see how it's made." "Fuck, that's true." "Thanks, Schopenhauer." "That helps." " How many of you are traveling?" " Three." "Bon voyage!" "I'll see you soon." "Bye-bye." "Will you come see me on your vacation?" "When is that?" "In just a few months." "Last call for Air France Flight 612 to New York." "I think that's you." "Shall we go?" "Can I talk to you?" "What is it?" "I don't wanna go live there." "New York's a great town." "It's gonna be great!" "I don't wanna go." "I wanna stay here." "You don't know New York." "New York's a really beautiful city." "They've got skyscrapers." "You're really lucky to be going!" "So are you glad we're leaving?" "No." "Of course I'm not glad." "Then why do you keep saying it's so great?" "Xavier!" " It's gonna be great." " Okay." " Bye-bye, Daddy." " Bye-bye, sweetheart." "Don't be sad." "If Xavier were here, I know what he'd say." ""My first two novels are being released." ""They're about me" ""but mostly about you."" "What happened?" "You really gave us a scare!" "The place is packed." "Jean-Claude just started." "You must be thrilled!" "Hi, remember me?" " Your neighbor from the olden days." " Incredible." "I wanted to say hi." "I just happened to be here." "You must be over the moon!" "We'll talk later." "Let me introduce Antoine Garceau." "Watch out!" "He's the next Proust!" "Congrats!" "Looks like you're a hit." "Here's my card, on the off chance you wanna get in touch." "Here he is now!" "Xavier Rousseau, the man of the hour!" "We were afraid you wouldn't show!" "I'll turn the floor over to him." "I'm sure he has lots to say." "Despite all that was happening for me in Paris, I decided to leave." "Life!" "The unforeseen!" "All that stuff you can't even imagine." "That's what I got hit with." "Yet again." "And frankly, I wasn't up to it." "Yet again, I was taking off on another journey." "Sorry." "It was hard not to wake you." "That's okay." "So..." "Classy, huh?" "Waking up in New York!" "Yeah." "I'm so happy you're here!" "Isn't it great?" "Just like old times!" "We'll live together." "It'll be great!" "Isabelle, you know, times have changed." "We're turning 40..." "Stop acting like an old geezer!" "It's not about being old." "It's just that our lives have changed." "I'm gonna have my kids over." "And I'm not sure Ju's into living with her chick's old pal." "We know where that goes." "Ju doesn't give a shit." "No, it's fine." "See." "No, Ju does give a shit." "And she's right." "You're really sweet to take me in." "But I'll try to find an apartment soon." "Think about my kids being here." "Plus yours." "It'll never work." "I need my own place." "I dunno..." "It would make me happy." "Anyway, feel free to stay as long as you like." "And Ju and I will help you find a place." "Is that far?" "Excuse me." " I'm looking for Wendy Anderson." "Is it here?" " Yes." " Hi." "Is this Wendy's apartment?" " Yes." " And you must be Xavier?" " Yes." "Hi." "I'm John." " Is she ..." " She is not." " OK so maybe I should go..." " No, no!" "Won't you come in?" " Are you sure?" " Yes." "Come in." "Please." "I'm sorry, this is kind of... a... embarrassing ..." "all the was around..." "Wendy is supposed to be here she said she'd be... on time ... and I do not know where the fuck she is," "Xavier ..." "I just wanted to tell you ..." "I love your kids." "Thanks." "Yes, I love them, they are ... great." "The other day we were playing..." "Here, please, sit." "So you and I have a ..." " A lot to say to each other." " Well ..." "Yes." "Yes." "A. .. how was your trip?" "You mean the plane, or the subway or ...?" " I'm sorry, the what?" " The way here?" "Let me make a quick digression." "As a foreigner in the US, you inevitably confront one excruciating thing." "That!" "If your English isn't impeccable, you quickly begin to feel like some sort of retard." "Everyone politely lowers themselves to your level." "Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I got the sense he wasn't really seeing at me." "To this New World man, as a Frenchman," "I seemed to represent the Old World." "I have journeyed one hundred leagues" "And with nary a blush," "Nor on bended knee, I proudly sit upright before you" "Well, yes ..." "You have to be thrilled to see your kids ..." " Hi." " I'm sorry!" " It's okay." " I got stuck in traffic." "Hi there." " So, I guess you both met?" " Yes." "Yes, we did... and I was actually saying, that I just do not want to interfere in any negative way in your relationship ... which, is already..." "unresolved." "Xavier has explained very clearly in his very simple way that ... his intentions, which are ..." "totally legitimate, so ..." "Daddy!" "How are you, my darlings?" "I'm so happy." " When did you get here?" " Yesterday." "I really missed you." "Did you enlist in the army or what?" "Why do you say that?" "Look at you!" "A uniform?" "A fucking uniform?" "But Wendy, why did not you tell me?" "It is mandatory in most good schools, it's not an uncommon thing." "Do you have any idea how difficult it is to find here a good, affordable school?" " How do I know if it is good?" " Of course it is a good school!" " You think I'm completely irresponsible?" " I do not care, Wendy!" "I don't give a shit Who says it's good?" "Stop right now!" "Over my dead body!" "No uniforms for my kids!" "Right!" "Like your education was just perfect..." "Sure my education was sloppy I know I'm a mess, I agree." " So maybe I'm a mess, but I'm their father!" " Listen." "When you find an apartment, you'll have the kids every other week." "Fort the rest I think it's better if you speak with my lawyer, because ..." " Was that Xavier?" " Yes." "He's pissed about the school uniforms." "What a surprise!" "Sorry but this is making me crazy." "Calm down." "It's not my fault." "But I understand." "I'd flip out, too." "He is just being..." "He is not talking about school, it's just me." "He has a problem with me." "Yes, but ... try to understand him." "He plans to live in a new city, new country, it's a whole new lifestyle," "I'd probably act the same way." "If I saw my kids in some school 346 00:31:03,292 -- 00:31:07,345 He is just being..." "He is not talking about school, it's just me." "He has a problem with me." "Yes, but ... try to understand him." "He plans to live in a new city, new country, it's a whole new lifestyle," "I'd probably act the same way." "If I saw my kids in some school that I have ... absolutely no way of relating to" " You're being so nice." "Why?" "I'm not being nice, I mean it." "absolutely no way of relating to" " You're being so nice." "Why?" "I'm not being nice, I mean it." "They probably couldn't get into a public school." "Wendy did that at the last minute." "And their neighborhood must be murder." "It's another culture." "Another culture!" "Now that he is in New York I think that You should also make a little bit of an effort." "What are you talking about me making effort?" "I mean..." "Jesus Christ, you don't even know him and you're taking his side." "He's doing it to me because he wants to make my life a nightmare." "I mean, why are you so nice?" "Then she says..." "Like I'm gonna go see her lawyer!" "Know how much Wendy's guy charges?" "$200 an hour!" "Just to chitchat!" "He's even got a gadget that clocks your phone calls." "I swear!" "You know what that asshole said?" "What the hell does that mean?" "Going to her lawyer was a huge mistake." "I'm looking for a cheaper one." "I understand, but this is New York." "It's very particular." "You got a lot of rules, you gotta play by the rules, OK?" "They are very strict about the laws here." "You can go uptown talk to any of my colleagues, and he will charge you about 2000 dollars." "For something that I'll tell you for 200 dollars." "You know what I mean?" "Okay, but my question is..." "Hey, guys!" "Can you just keep it down a little bit?" "Thank you." "Sorry about that." "We will deal with this in the right way." "First, we open an account." "It costs you 50 dollars." "It's easy." "Then you go home you get all the documentation, you bring it back here, and we'll open up a file." "Like this kind of file." "You will have your own file that'd be 200 bucks." "That's all." "If you need some research, it is cheap." "$ 100 an hour." "This is nothing!" "But it's going to be more than 2,000 very quickly." " Hey, calm down." " Okay, I'm sorry." "Calm down." "I'm doing business over here." "Foreigners ..." "No offense, not you." "All right." "You know what I mean?" "There are rules, and there are rules understand?" "They can be open to interpretation." "We can think about how to work around them." "That's why they are called rules, right?" "Sometimes they're meant to be broken a little." "It's New York." "They got their own way of doing things." "Hi, there!" " Martine, I just got your message." " So?" "I'm in New York." " Are you shittin' me?" " No." "Oh, shit!" "I wanted us to celebrate my 40th, like we did 10 years ago." "What's with you women?" "You all wanna relive the past!" "Excuse me, Monsieur!" "Surrounded by sentimental women!" "I didn't mean to disturb you and your harem..." "Martine, calm down!" "I'm as single as they come!" "Isabelle's putting me up." "She just wants to relive old times." "Still, we're making progress." "Yeah." "It used to take us days to get over stuff." "Both of us sulking and never saying why." "That would've taken us a week." "We have made progress!" "Look who's here!" "Hey, Lucas!" "Whaddup, my man?" "Nobody says "whaddup" anymore." "You're such a noob!" "What's a "noob"?" "You're a dinosaur, Xavier!" "For sure!" "Say hello to Xavier." "He's in New York." "You shitting' me?" "You're in New York?" "You got all the luck!" "Xavier!" "Chow time!" "Coming!" "It's nice." " Where are you from?" " France." "I went to Paris on my honeymoon." "Great." "It's a beautiful apartment." "It can hold up to 12 people." "How many would you be here?" "Three." "Do you have just one kid?" "No." "Two." "You lost your wife?" "Yes." "You could easily go on stage, you know?" "You don't have to heat the place with these steam pipes..." "but the downside is the spring." " It's good place." " You can hear the rats fucking." "Everyone wants to bite the Big Apple?" "And well, cool." "Come on in." "Olá, chicas." "Olá." "You guys are lucky!" "It's so beautiful here." "Now I get it." "Rents are insane." "And all I've seen is shit." "Xavier..." "Ju had an idea." "Ni Hao!" "Where'd you disappear to?" "Brooklyn." "Let me introduce your new neighbor." "Okay, no problem." "Bye!" "Bye!" "God, it's so weird to be here again." "I got this apartment in college." "As you can see I did a lot of decorating experiments here." "There is a little bedroom in there." "I think I was into grunge at the time." " I'm sorry." " No, it's okay." "It's great." " Can I share something personal with you?" " Yes." " Yes, go ahead." " I do not know if she told you ..." "But I was the one who was supposed to carry the baby." "After a series of tests it turns out that I can't." "So she decided to get pregnant instead." "You can imagine that first..." "the idea freaked her out." "She did not want to go the anonymous route." "Then she thought of asking you." "In a way without you, we probably would not be having a baby." "But, Ju ..." "I'm sorry, but I'm gonna ask you one more time." "You sure you do not want to keep this apartment for you?" "Yes, I'm sure." "And we were gonna rent it out any way." "But that means there is no escape." "You're stuck with Isabelle." "If anything happens ..." "No way out." "I'm scared shitless, but I love the bitch." "Nothingness..." " Hegel?" " Yes." "Come in." "Thank you." "You write, too?" "Yeah." "What are you writing?" "A book called "Chinese Puzzle."" "It's a novel about how complicated life is." "Well, sort of." "I wrote a book called "The Phenomenology of Spirit" " ""Phänomenologie des Geistes."" "My book presents a simple vision of life." "Really?" "Boy, am I jealous." "Thank you." "Can you quote me something?" ""All nothingness is the nothing of something."" ""All nothingness is the nothing of..."" "Hegel?" "Hegel?" "Hegel?" "When you begin a new story, your job is to envision." "To try to glimpse stuff that doesn't as yet exist." "That's what writing is." "Going out to meet the ghosts of the future." "Not out of the past, not the ones that are dead and buried." "Ghosts of the future." "Those who don't exist yet." "Great!" "Here." "It doesn't have to be perfect." "How's it going, Tom?" " Almost done." " Very, very soon." " Just that little bit there." " We're fast workers!" "Mommy doesn't let us eat McDonald's." "Really?" "Why?" "She says it's no good." "Really?" "Oh, shit!" "So you don't want anymore?" " You don't have a job here, do you?" " No, I don't." "You have relationships with any American company, that might have work for you?" " Anywhere?" " No." " And you are on a tourist visa?" " Yes." " I thought so." "And you're obviously looking for a job?" " Yes." "Here's the problem, you can not actually legally work in this country with a tourist visa." "Unless of course if you have a lot of money." "In which case you can say:" "I get a lot of money, I do not have a job." "Am I right?" "That's it." "That's Catch 22 And I can't figure it out." "What about my children?" "I'd like to know if I can do anything about their school of choice..." "Yes, but you have to sort out your financial situation first." "So as a foreign citizen you can't work legally in this country." "Now, I'm not supposed to mention this, but ..." "There are plenty of ways to work in this country illegally." "If you get paid under the table." "You understand "under the table"?" "Shush shush." " Yes." "I understand." " Okay" "If you get one of those jobs..." "And I probably should not advice you this either..." "You come to me, you hire me, and I can make the whole thing illegal." "Comprende?" "OK" "Saturday is "daddy day" at the playground." "Mia, take it easy!" "And what about your ex?" "Does she still live in Harlem?" "No, she's in East Village." "Makes things a lot easier." "We got a fucked-up schedule now." "Fucked up!" "She's got Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays." "I get the weekends." "And the she's got Mondays, And I got Tuesdays." "It's really a pain in the ass." "Its even harder than me." "Easy, Mia!" "Let's go home." " Xavier, save my number." " Good." "347 .." "399 .." "9534 ..." "Call me any time tomorrow, man." "Great." "Mia is amazing you know." "She never spoke in English before with her mother and now look at her." " Four year olds ..." "Nothing is a problem." " We're going home." "Let's go home." "Say goodbye." "Coming, Tom?" "Remember, man!" "We are fucking warriors!" "Ray laid out a whole theory about divorced fathers being warriors." "Guys who won't let go of their kids." "Tom." "Tom." ""The new 21st century adventurers," he said." "Want your banana?" "I'll see you in a week, okay?" "One beddy-bye, 2 beddy-byes, 3, 4, 5, 6..." "Bye." "Daddy's kiss!" " Do you speak English?" " Of course, he speaks English." " You're in good shape?" " Boss, look at him he's in phenomenal shape." "He was a messenger in France for 2 years." "In Paris." " And can't the guy speak for himself?" " Well ..." "It's just it was a bit different in France." "It was with a motorbike." "Friends of Ray are OK by me." "I trust you." "Come on!" "You bring them in just like that?" " And why not?" " He's a foreigner man." "Are you gonna hire him just like that?" " Yes." "What's the problem?" " What, what?" " He's a foreigner." " I'm a foreigner." "And you're a foreigner." "He's a foreigner." "Who is not a foreigner in this room?" "I'm not a foreigner." "I'm an American" " Fuck off Obama." " I am an American!" "Why the fuck would you take this asshole?" "Why the fuck would you call me an asshole?" "You speak Spanish!" "I studied in Spain, man." "Thanks to Ray, I started guzzling asphalt." "Pinned to the ground, you see that New York's obsession is the sky." "The image NYC sells is the skyline, skyscrapers, penthouses, rooftops." "All anybody cares about is reaching for the sky." "In reality, the city's split in two." "When you first get here, you can't be part of the "up" world." "You belong in the "down" world." "You live downtown." "You have no right to the sky." "You gotta work your way up from the bottom." "The New York asphalt is like a boxer's skin after a bout." "The skin of a zombie - a tattoo, body-piercing, crack, scarification junkie." "So that's my life in New York at the moment." "Things any better with Wendy, now that you're settled?" "No." "I should've just told her the truth." "We're driving along, we get stuck in traffic..." "Nothing unusual." "The guy tried to get out." "But he'd turned onto West 11th Street." "And West 11th Street is a rarity in New York." "It's not completely straight." "It elbows down, branches off." "So we're in that little West Village maze and stop at the corner of West 4th." "No, not here." "Streets are supposed to run parallel, not cross!" "So the guy loses it." "So the truck driver says..." "Then the shit hit the fan." "Holy shit." "The guy blows a gasket, hops out of the car and he gets bashed with the baseball bat." "So now I'm driving a yellow cab in some tawdry Manhattan detective story." "I pull up at E.R. with my unconscious Chinaman." "I should have just told Wendy that but..." "What's wild is the Chinese guy had just moved to New York." "And that corner contradicted his entire image of America." "He'd heard it was simple and organized." "That New York was laid out in a mathematical grid to simplify things." "But the fact is things are never simple." "See what I mean?" "Could you knock out something a tad more linear by next week?" "Next week?" "Sure." "I'll give it all I've got." "I don't believe this!" " Hi, there!" " Hi, Martine." "Listen, Xavier, can you do me a favor?" "Sounds scary but go ahead." "I'm coming to New York." "Can you pick me up at the airport?" "That's kind of complicated because..." "If I come to New York, I'd hate to miss you." "No, of course." "I'll figure it out." "Don't worry, I'll be there." "You should get married." " To whom?" " To some American." "Just take a look around." "Okay." " Is that the only way?" " Yes." "That's pretty much all we got left." "But you're a good looking guy, you'll find somebody really quick." "It costs 50000." " $ 50,000?" " Yes." "If you found someone who wants to go with you to Europe ..." "You could knock down the price to 20000 ..." "Think about it." "Go." "Ni Hao." "Is that him?" "What did he say?" "He says he's looking for a wife." "It's so weird to see you here." "I feel like I'm in Barcelona." "You really are a nut job." "So what are you doing here?" "I have to meet a guy named Zhang Yu who's based in New York." "He's sort of the "Mr. Tea" for all of China." "I'm trying to get his support in setting up a reliable brand of Chinese-produced organic tea." "Because food safety in the global environment is "the" hot issue these days." "And don't laugh at me." "Boy, you've really changed." "You used to wanna save the world." "Business is a great way of saving the world." "Think of the impact this could have." "It would be like bringing an organic mindset to China." "And not just for tea!" "Then there's soy or..." "It could be a real revolution!" "Hello." "Oh, shit!" "How high a fever?" "Of course you're a good mother!" "You're away on business and she got sick." "It's not your fault." "She's dumb, too." "Why get sick on the day I leave?" "I've obsessed about this meeting for months." "I don't know why but things never jibe for me." "They're never in sync." "I don't know why." "Relax, I know exactly what you mean." "Do I look okay?" "Not too pathetic?" "You don't look pathetic and you're not a lousy mother." "I'll call the pediatrician." "Don't call him back." "Sonia's there, don't worry." "It's under control." "Go to your meeting and knock 'em dead!" "I should get going..." "Would you stay for the meeting?" "You want me to?" "We'll say you're my assistant." "You're fine." "She seems to be a little better." "I can't find a single ticket." "Forget about leaving tonight." "You sure I can stay at your place?" "Scared I'll rape you?" "Good night." "Good night!" "Yeah, I said good night." "Martine!" "What?" "Am I embarrassing you?" "No, but..." "Let's not make things more complicated than they are." "Sleeping in the same bed doesn't mean..." "We're sleeping in the same bed," "I'm cuddling." "What's complicated about that?" "Martine!" "What?" "Martine, that's my dick!" "I know." "It's been a really long time... since I fucked." "How about you?" ""Go deeper..."" "What?" " What?" " Nothing." "Boy, you really have changed!" "You'd never have said that before." "I wanted to." "Gimme a break!" "I'm getting old." "I'm not gonna spend my life..." "I'm gonna be 40." "I know what I like and I say so." "If that sounds slutty, too bad!" "No way!" "On the contrary, I love it." ""Go deeper..."" "Stop!" "Wait!" "Xavier!" "See?" "We made it!" " Maybe we shouldn't have done it." " I know..." "I'm not so sure it was a good idea." "Okay, bye." "I am delighted that at last you came to an agreement regarding your children's education, and you found a school midway between your respective homes." "I can tell you, not many couples are able to separate as amicably as you have." "And I congratulate you on your respective courtesy you have shown to one another." "People think you can judge the quality of a couple by the love they share and the number of years they've spent together." "But I think their love they show one another can also be seen in their ability to break up, in a civilized manner." "Agree." "I think it also goes to show that in any moment of great conflict there is that moment when justice is victorious." "And justice will always prevail." "I think it's not inappropriate to quote here another great lawyer and a great man," "Abraham Lincoln, who once said - and I do believe that this is a direct quote." " Goodbye." " Thank you." "I'm sorry about how I have been with you recently" "I know that I've been cold." "I'm sorry." "I..." " I just could not help it." " It's okay." "I'm just happy we came to an agreement." "You were right about the school." "It's only fair that you're happy as well." "I was just so upset with you." "You .." "You can." "be sometimes so hard to deal with." "John and I are getting married." "Great." "Your dreams come true." "I know you think I'm with him for his money, or something but I'm not." " I love him." " I got it." "It's okay." "And I've been thinking ..." "I want to invite you to the wedding." "I know it's strange." "I'm not crazy about it." "But I think for Mia and Tom it might be a good thing if you were there but you do not have to." "I do not know." "I'll tell you." "I didn't have the nerve to tell her I was getting married, too." "And that I clearly wasn't crazy about her coming to my wedding." "Mia, you could smile." " I did smile." " Okay." "Oh, right!" "This is Nancy, my American wife, who I've been madly in love with for a month." "And the 3 days we spent fabricating a relationship" "Immigration Services would buy." "I don't understand." "I lucked out." "She was a great sport." "On the other hand, the Immigration guy wasn't such a great sport." "ID, please ..." "Thank you." "ID." " How did you two meet?" " We met in a hospital ..." " I'm sorry, go ahead." " No, please, you go ahead." "We met at a hospital," "My husband was there ..." " Helping a man who happens to be my uncle's cousin." " Who initiated this conversation?" "I think we both did." "We saw each other, smiled ..." " Said hello ..." " And he was trying to impress you?" "Or attempt to seduce you?" " Or purposely attract your attention?" " What do you mean?" "The officer is asking, if I seduced you on purpose." " If I am a professional liar." " Let your wife answers the question." " Is that what you really meant?" " Please ma'm just answer the question." " No, did you really mean that?" " Just answer the question." "01:09:38,010 -- 01:09:41,300" " No, you answer my question" " Are you accusing my husband of being a liar?" "I'm sorry, madam but it is my duty to do this investigation." "Now could you please leave me alone with your husband for a moment?" "Can you describe your honeymoon?" " Like you want to know the details?" " Can you please describe your honeymoon?" "OK, Nancy and I went to this really nice hotel and .." "Where?" " Montauk." " Name of the hotel?" "Ocean Beach Resort." " Can't you remember?" " Yeah, I just told you:" "Ocean Beach Resort." "How much was it?" " What's that look supposed to mean?" " You want to know how much I spent?" "Is that going to tell you how much I love her?" "What kind of question is that?" "What was that look supposed to mean?" " What's that look supposed to mean?" " Nothing, sir." "From now on, just answer the questions, okay?" "Okay." " How much was the hotel?" " 260" " How many nights?" " One." "Did you have fun?" "Did you have fun?" "Lots." "So as we say in France "It's not won yet."" "What does that mean?" "I do not know if all this will work, and if I can become American one day." "I do not know about you but..." "But it feels really weird to be married." "Yeah." "OK." "I wanna go." "Bye." "Dad?" "My father called to say he was coming to New York." "Is everything okay?" "I was surprised." "We hadn't seen each other in ages." "I thought about how my father never did any of the stuff" "I did for my kids." "Not just the happy, eventful times, but even the uneventful moments, Iike this." "When you think nothing's happening." "They seem meaningless but, in fact, they're important." "Because those empty moments are also part of life." "That's what childhood is." "And I'd missed that." "I'd missed him." "This has all really changed." "It's unrecognizable." "We walked for hours." "He talked about the New York he knew." "He didn't ask one question about me or the New York of today I might know." "We didn't have much to say to each other." "As if being apart when I was little made for too little complicity, too few topics of conversation." "What?" "Hold on..." "Your mom and I once wrote our initials in the cement." "My J and her S with a heart around them." "One of those goofy things you do when you're 20." "We looked a little longer." "We saw something that looked like a heart but time must have worn it away." "Great!" "Everything okay?" "I don't know." "Let me think it over." "I'll call you back." "Anything serious?" "Isabelle had just given birth and asked if I wanted to recognize the baby." " Remember my friend Isabelle?" " Yeah." "I hesitated to tell him the whole story." "But in the end, I told my father everything." "And now she's asking if I wanna recognize the baby and..." "I remember, all he said was..." "Don't get involved in that shit." "Well, if I were you..." "Bye!" "After he left," "I realized I had tons of questions for him." "Why had he and Mom split up?" "Did they really love each other?" "But..." "Then without really knowing why," "I walked home on Avenue A." "And at the corner of Saint Mark's Place..." "My father got the street right but the avenue wrong." "It wasn't First Avenue, it was Avenue A." "There, on the streets of this city, it was carved." "A trace of something I'd never really known." "Here, in New York, at the corner of 8th Street and Avenue A, my parents were in love." "Those tiny initials in the sidewalk held a kind of fundamental proof that my birth wasn't a total accident." "Two people were in love." "Really in love." "Even if they weren't together long." "No matter why they eventually broke up." "All that mattered now were those tiny initials." "You fathered a child just a few months before your wedding?" "Yes, because it was for a friend of ours." "She's a lesbian." "And my husband wanted to give her a hand." "A hand?" " Dumb question." " Spit it out." "Do either you or Ju take on the daddy role?" "I adore you!" "Guess what?" "I found a Belgian babysitter who did Erasmus in Barcelona!" "Isabelle?" "Isabelle!" "Yeah?" "I mean my name's Isabelle, too." "Okay, sorry." "No need to be sorry." "Hi." "Come on in." "Sorry..." "I mean, hi." "Let me explain 'cause we have to run." "You've taken care of infants before?" "No." "I mean, yeah." "Yeah." "Well, I mean..." "Sort of." "I have tons of brothers and sisters." "I've never done it professionally but it's like I have." "See what I mean?" "Yeah, I see." "Hi!" "Pretty girl, huh?" "Not my type." "Really?" "We never had the same taste!" "That's for sure!" "Wanna go to a dyke bar later?" "Can't!" "With all my legal fees," "I took a gig here tonight for big bucks!" "Cool!" "We'll stay here!" " You wanna stay?" " Yeah." " You sure?" " Yeah!" " I'll be over there." " I'm watching!" "I was really good!" "I didn't even pick up a girl!" "Even though I was dying to hump that nymphette like this." "Ever see me piss standing up?" " No." " You're not the only one," "I can do it, too." "Watch!" " You can't piss here." " I'm just demonstrating!" "It's after 4 o'clock." "Oh, shit." "Shit, I said 2 o'clock." "Fuck!" "Hello." "You okay?" "I'm sorry." "I said 2 at the latest." "I think it's 4." "I'm really sorry." "Everything go okay?" "Oh, yeah, great." "It went really well." "She's incredibly cute." "She went right to sleep and never woke up." "Could your husband take me home or call me a cab?" "It's kind of late." "Sorry." "There's something you should know." "This guy's not my husband." "I thought he was the father." "Yeah, yeah!" "He's the father but not my husband." "I live with a woman." "With a woman?" "Yeah." "A woman." "Oh, yeah." "Okay!" "You have seen lesbians before?" "Yeah, yeah." "No, yeah." "Sure." "Can you watch Kitty and my trains and build her house?" "Okay." "I'm building her house." "But it's not her lunchtime." "No." "If she groans, ask her what's wrong." "Okay." "If she's hungry, give her some crackers." " Hi, Xavier." " Hi." " You progressing?" " Yeah." "How's it going?" "I'm working my ass off." "I'm almost done." "I have a secret." "Why can't I see you?" "I can't seem to get the camera to work." "Neither can I." "I have sound but no image." "I'll call you in a few days, when I'm done." "Without fail!" "The publishers' congress is in 2 weeks." "I need it." "I know." "They're all waiting." "I can't show up empty-handed." "It's really important, understand?" "I understand, don't worry." "I'll call you in a few days, okay?" "Okay, take care." "Okay, bye." "Mia, how many times do I have to tell you?" "When Daddy's on the phone, he's doing very important stuff." "I'm done." "Let's see." "Did you do them all?" "Oh, no." "There's one more." "Tom, you have to work systematically." "Otherwise, we're lost." "You have to do them all." "See, it says to do them all." "You've gotta be a little more..." "Understand?" "Mia, shall I feed her or wait?" "So, you getting laid?" "No, it's zilch in the chick department." "You gotta get laid." "I'm not saying fall in love." "But I know you." "You gotta..." "And you?" "No way!" "Hey, mum's the word!" "No kidding." "Of course." "Go on, spill it." "I don't believe it!" "She really annoyed me." "You sleep with everyone who annoys you?" "No, but..." "I couldn't find another babysitter, so I asked her back." "It all went smoothly?" "Yeah." "Can I give you a lift?" "It really is beautiful here." "The bridge... all that." "I love it!" "I often work till 9 and bike home." "That's even more beautiful." "I can't drive you tonight, Ju's away." "I'll just take the subway." "No, I'll pay for a taxi." "That's nice." "I'm sorry." "Then what?" "Then we saw each other again and..." "She's crazy about me." "I'm in deep shit." "Shit." "And Ju?" "What about Ju?" "Ju's great!" " Yeah, Ju's great." " Yeah, Ju's great!" "Yeah, Ju's great." "I really like her." "Fuck, Isabelle!" "You're so lucky to have a stable relationship..." "Take it easy!" "Why do you need a kid like that?" "Are you gonna lecture me now?" "I'm not lecturing you." "I've tried to stop, believe me." "I said, "I don't wanna see you anymore."" "And?" "Isabelle!" "I can't resist that, Xavier." "It's just so yummy." "She's beautiful, she's... she's young!" "I don't know..." "She's alive!" "And Ju's not alive?" "Sure, but..." "I need to know that spark's still there, that I still can, that I'm still..." "That you're still what?" "Take it easy, Xavier!" "Know what I think?" "I think you're jealous." "And you need to get laid, too!" "I know you like a book!" "You just need to get laid." "Fuck some chick!" "Anyone." "A slut, anybody!" "Because you're turning into an asshole!" "I'd love to get laid!" "But with work, the kids..." "My head's not into it." "I don't wanna talk about it." "Martine and her kids came to NYC for Easter vacation." "I'm really sorry." "Did you forget us?" "No, I was just over there." "Hi, kids!" "Hi!" "How's it going?" "Hey, Xavier, I've got a question." "You got a new girlfriend?" "Can't you say hello before asking questions like that?" "The kid's got no manners." "Sorry." "Now Xavier can answer your question." "So, Xavier?" "No, I live alone." "Ni Hao." "Let me help you." "Watch the door!" "Ever since we broke up, he's been very lonely and sad." "After your mom dumped me," "I fell madly in love with a fabulous woman." "She was so fabulous she dumped him, just like Mommy." "But otherwise, she was fabulous." "Where's Tom and Mia?" "Where are they?" "They spend every other week with me." "They'll be here soon." "Come on!" "What's that over there?" "What's that?" "See that?" "What bridge is that?" "The Manhattan Bridge!" "That's the Brooklyn Bridge." "Too bad it's cloudy." "On a clear day, you can see Barcelona!" "Really?" "Go to sleep." "Tom, get in bed." "Got a kiss for Daddy?" "Good night." "Turn off the light." "Mom, what time is it?" "Nine o'clock." "That's 3 AM for you." "Three o'clock!" "Time for some shut-eye." "And don't make a ruckus." "It's late." "That's enough now." "Good night, Tom." "Good night, Daddy." "Calm down." "Fat chance!" "They're so excited." "Where do I sleep?" "You can have my room." "Xavier..." "I'd love for us to be in love again." "Does that happen?" "I don't know if it happens." "But why not?" "We can try." "Even if it doesn't exist, we can invent things that don't exist, can't we?" "I dunno." "I know you." "I knew it would freak you out if I said that." "We can try, at least." "We're so lucky." "You've got two kids." "I've got two." "They get along really well." "We know each other inside out." "You know my defects." "I know yours." "We've both been knocked around by life." "I don't know..." "I feel like... we could make a fresh start." "I'll be honest with you." "I'm scared it'll feel sort of warmed over." "I'm not sure it's possible." "On paper, maybe." "But I'm not sure things work like that." "I feel like love's about confronting the unknown." "There's gotta be a spark." "Know what Cyrulnik says about love?" "Know what I say about Cyrulnik?" "Look!" "Martine, wait!" "A tankful of Prince Charmings!" "No way!" "Those aren't princes!" "I want that one." "Jade, you pick one, too!" "Pick out a prince, girls!" "Wanna pick out your Prince Charming?" "Can frogs be princesses too?" "Sure they can!" "Go ahead." "Grab the one you like." " That one." " You want a prince, Mommy?" "I already found my frog!" "That one's ugly." "Who wants to kiss him?" "Who wants a Prince Charming?" "Mia!" " You?" " Not me!" "Mia." "Now you have to kiss him!" "Who wants it?" "A little kiss on his head!" "One little kiss." "He's so sweet." "Sure you don't want to?" "I put a video on for them." "What are you writing these days?" "It's done?" "No, it's not done." " Can I read it?" " Yeah." "It's so much better than what you used to write!" " Really?" " It's really good." "I'm really impressed!" "It's funny that you find life so complicated." "Look at your life or mine..." "It's complicated." "So what?" "I came to New York to be near my kids, who I had with a Brit, who I lived with for 10 years, who moved here to be with an American." "I had a baby with 2 lesbians." "I married a Chinese woman to become an American." "And life's not complicated?" "I can tell you've never lived in China!" "What does that mean?" " Mom!" " Coming!" "Isn't she beautiful?" "She's my neighbor." "Big hit!" "Sometimes it works." "What?" "Nothing." "Come here!" "Be right back." " What's up?" " I have to see her." "Can you babysit?" "And slip me your keys?" "I warn you, we'll be home in an hour and a half, max." "Oh!" "Okay, thanks." "Give her a bottle in half an hour." "You're a real pain!" "Isn't she sort of your daughter, too?" "Yeah, right!" "What?" "So now I am a father in the traditional sense?" "Hi, Tom!" "I'll take off." "Yeah." "Why'd you say you were her father?" "So, that's it." "It's complicated but that's why she's sort of your little sister." "So she's got two mommies and one daddy?" "Yeah, that's it." "Daddy, can we go on the slide now?" "Yeah." "You can go." "I'll watch the baby." " Thanks." " No problem." "Mia!" "No slipping allowed." " They called from the AES." " What?" "Emigration services called me to verify if I was the owner of the apartment, and if I knew about you and your wife." "And I'm supposed to meet them at the apartment in half an hour and let them in." "I think you'd better be there." "Can you meet me there in 10 minutes?" "10 minutes?" "Okay, okay." "Isabelle's got a problem." "I have to go home." " Everything okay?" " Yeah." " Can you handle them all?" " Sure, no problem." " We'll meet up later." " Thanks." "I don't want any interruptions." "Fuck, Isabelle!" "We're almost 40!" "What a fucking pain!" "Nancy?" "Hi, listen." "The emigration officers are coming to my place right now." "Can you drive me there?" "Hey Xavier, I just realized that I got an extra key to the apartment." " You've got a key?" " Yeah." "Don't worry." "Right, see you there." "Fuck!" "Isabelle!" "Isabelle..." "Yes, Isabelle..." "Ni Hao." "Isabelle!" "Isabelle, open the window!" "Open up!" "I don't believe this!" "Over here!" "What are we going to ..." "What is the plan?" "Can you open the door?" " Nancy?" " Ju." "How nice to meet you!" "Hi there." " What is it?" " All right." "Damn." " Wait, wait." "How many kids you have ?" " Two." "No." "Three." " Hello" " Hi." " Sorry we just popped in like this." " It's okay." "This is a routine visit without prior notice." "To verify that you both live in the same place." " Is that the bedroom in there?" "Can we take a look?" " Of course." "Ju Ho, the landlord." "Yeah, that's right." "Hi!" "How's it going?" "We were just   hanging out." "Well, we do not have to do too much ..." "searching..." " To see that a couple really does live here." " Well, yes ..." "Not only do we live here, but we've had some amazing memories." " Yes." " And parties..." "Remember that, when John, he did that..." "Yes!" "I remember!" "John was so funny..." "Hello!" "Hi, Maria, how'd it go?" "Thanks a lot for taking the kids." "Get lost!" "No problem, sir." "Say goodbye to Maria and her kids." "Let's go!" "See you tomorrow?" "Yeah, same time tomorrow!" "I'll call you." " Hi, Maria!" " Adios." " Your babysitter?" " Yes." " She is from Argentina." " From Puerto Rico." " Puerto Rico?" " Yes." "She's from Puerto Rico." " I thought she was from Argentina." " She's so nice." " She's okay." " She's so hard worker." "What is going on?" "I do not understand." "How did she get here?" "I know it was my sister." "I asked Isabelle, if I can spend some time with her." "Okay." "I don't understand ..." "OK sorry about that." "I just wanted to make sure you both were living in the same place." "Thank you." "Bye bye." "Xavier, what's going on?" "Xavier, I came to pick up the..." "Oh, Ju!" "What are you doing here?" "What a surprise!" "I was helping them with the .." "Great." "I'm happy to see you." "You doing okay, Mia?" "No shells in the yolks!" "Maria, when you're done with the kids, make dinner." "Hey, do it yourself, buddy!" "Just kidding." "Can you help me, Mommy?" "Be right there!" " I'm so happy to see you!" " Me, too!" "I couldn't believe my eyes." "They could never stand one another." "But now that they'd both dumped me, they were two peas in a pod." "They insisted we all go out to eat together." "Ju offered to watch the kids." "And I ended up with Martine, Wendy and Isabelle." "Whenever I take the NYC subway," "I'm always humming the Ellington tune, "Take the A Train."" "That's really interesting!" "You know who you need, Xavier?" "You need a girl who is a little bit fragile." "Someone who's like a shrinking violet." "Women love it so much to be a little manipulated." "He likes feisty chicks." "Xavier plays his cards close to his chest." "I think he needs a tough broad." "If she's too delicate..." "Yeah, but sweet." "What he really needs is a sensitive girl who's attentive." "Yeah, but not too clingy." "If she's wimpy, he'll suffocate." "I can relate to that." "I agree with you both!" "Xavier, you need a combination of the three of us." "Sure you don't want a taxi?" "No, the bus is fine." "Let me help you then!" "No, you have to put Mia to bed." "We're fine." " Bye-bye." " Bye-bye." "Bye." "Okay, we're off!" "Mia, I'll read you a story." "Okay?" " Then you can take your nap." " Yeah." "It's getting late." "Why is Martine leaving?" "Martine has a life in Paris, a job." "She just came for vacation." "It's too complicated to stay." "Don't you want her to stay?" "Of course I'd like her to stay." "But it's complicated." "Who knows if she'd like living here?" "New York's great!" "It's a great town!" "It's complicated, you know." "You don't realize." "Daddy," "Jade was sad to be leaving." "Lucas was sad to be leaving, too." "Martine!" "Don't go!" " What?" " Don't go!" " What does that mean?" " Don't go!" "My plane takes off in two hours." "The bus is about to leave." "Who cares?" "Stay!" "The kids have school in two days." "We'll figure it out." "Stay!" "There is a spark." "Stay." "Yeah, Mommy, stay!" "But if I stay, I'll have to find a job, get a visa..." "We will." "I'll find you an American." "We're staying here now." "It's our town!" "We're not gonna budge." "We're gonna settle down." "That's disgusting." "So, did you read it?" "Yeah." " And?" " So happy days are here again?" "Yeah." "Is that a drag?" "I have a problem with the ending." "Why?" "It's sort of the hideous happy ending." "What does that mean?" "What do you care if they end up happy?" "Calm down!" "I will not!" "Who is this guy, to say such a...?" "Calm down." "I know your spiel about tragedy." "It's true, most stories do feed on misery." "But when you find happiness, there's nothing more to say." "So it's time to stop." "Are you talking about in life or in the novel?" "What are you thinking about?" "Life." "Subtitles by Rosemary Ricchio" "Subtitling:" "LVT" " Paris"