"And you are a handsome man." "Slowly, I'm still learning." "I can't get over it, you're learning Cantonese." "Even your accent is good." "Who is that?" "My ex-girlfriend." "She has very nice legs, but no self-esteem." "The irony is, I feel partly responsible for her self-nullifying behaviour." "You're allowing yourself to be victimised." "Perhaps you haven't been effectively assertive?" "I've made a confident declaration in defence of my rights ...but it does not seem to do any good." "If I help her out of feelings of obligation, I may find myself resenting her." "Besides, she's a psycho hose beast." "That is very funny." "But labeling people can be dangerous." "Was it Kierkegaard or Dick Van Patten who said" ""If you label me, you negate me?"" "Excellent."