"Tonight,on the girl's guide to 21st century sex secret of the female orgasm and how women can ejaculate like men the best way to make love with your overweight" "what hapen inside the vagina during men ejaculation." "and what men can learn from women who have sex with other women." "A girl's guide to 21st century sex, Episode One welcome to a girl's guide to 21st century sex the definitive coaching manual for having better sex" "I am doctor Catherine Hood." "and over the next eight weeks" "I will be exploring every aspects of love making to improve you and your partner's performance" "Each time in the show" "We will demostrate and analyze the world's famous sexal positions with our specially designed camera we will see what really happen to your body during intercourse" "and we will explore sexual mysteries from how to get biger penis how to find the G-spot,have safe anal sex and how to have sex while you are pregnant we will also bring cautionary details of sexual transmitted infections" "and horrible story of how sex can go wrong and on every show,our world-famous sexal therapist Lou Paget from Los Angeles would be vedio very own personal expert coaching sections on anything from stimulating your G-spot to exercises for the perfect penis" "coming up tonight, we will discover how being a clinically a beast is no barrier to having great sex" "first,most women can have orgasm with practice and some can even ejaculate here is what you need to know about female orgasm" "the female orgasm is also called coming climaxing or having a big O lying and ?" "with pleasure a spike ?" "orgasm is the climax to great sex wheter you have view from full penetrated sex or sex with you partner,or by masturbation there are ways to make your orgasm longer or even more explosive" "my orgasm are amazing,really intense it just feel like going to heaven" "34 year old Moorgen from Corson has been in relationship with PE Phsyis for years but doesn't find orgasm easy" "I can't come up of myself from penetrated sex alone the data suggested that 30 percent of women can achieve orgasm with traditional penial-vaginal intercourse" "the female orgasm is a feeling of increasing sex excitement the building point of mood from ecstasy this orgasm moment is characterized by surge of muscle contraction of sexual organs" "the breathing becomes shallower and it becomes faster the heart rating increases and often the women can become quite warm, quite hot and inside the vagina, the glands that lie on the wall of the vagina will start to sweat" "the big news is,the women can have orgasm in several place simultaneously we have uniorgasm which is either a clitoris orgasm or a G-spot orgasm,then we have a biorgasm which is the two orgasm at the same time" "and the triorgasm, which is the anus,G-spot and clitoris at the same time" "I also like it when my clit,G-spot and anus stimulated because that is like three in want, this is amazing just feel really hot at the point of orgasm, some women have reported the explosion of mysterious liquid" "however,the medical community is divided on whether this claim is scientifically justifiable" "female ejaculation is a phenomenon it's hotly debated by many researchers,scientists,and doctors we feel it may be, and we know for certain definitely happen it is that women have experiences what they call an explosion of fluid" "the point of orgasm so the juice is till out for female ejaculation but for some women,ejaculating fluid during orgasm is frequent to come" "for me,it starts out as a small ?" "and then it just took off from there" "I got really excited about it wow,my body can do this and I can ejaculate as ofen as I want well,the orgasm itself does not change it is deeper ?" ",it's really wonderful and it's a whole different experience,it's delightful,wonderful" "I type some partners who love it,some partners who a little fret about it first and it can be such a very erotic thing" "I mean when you both come over and ejaculate that's wonderful.easy all over the face and you have it all over youself it's very fun,it's very wet,it's very wild" "so it can be huge turn on and back especially when it was totally explosive and it's just gushing, you totally gushing,it's very hot women that can ejaculate have well developed skene's glands skene's glands are the equal prostate glands in men" "and it surround urethra and with sexual stimulation,whether it be clitoris,vagina,G-spot or others the skene's glands become engorged,and secret fluid the fluid is and has been studied,consistent with ?" "or blood so it has ?" ",potassium,calcium,it's also PSA in it, Prostate Specific Antigen and in some case,urine,in some case,it's urine in some case,it's the combination between ejaculated fluid and urine" "and sometimes it's purely skene's gland fluid there has been a lot of research done looking at this fluid but we still don't know whether it is urine or fluid from another part of vagina" "a woman can have orgasm through intercourse,oral sex or anal sex manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner body loving,or ?" ",or masturbation soem women may have orgasm by just touching their breasts or by fantasizing about sex for many women the contact has been much more direct right on the genitals and in regular ?" "most women would have one orgasm,and then it need to take a long break stop,or ?" "sex place before the nex one but some women can have several arouse,they can have multiple orgasm but about 10 percent of women are thought to be anal orgasm and others frigid" "Danid even discovered that by wearing socks during sex twice as many women are able to achieve orgasm and how can you spot a woman who is faking the difference is during a real orgasm her muscle may contract involantary" "not even a great chance can it take back" "most women will have times when they find achieving orgasm a challenge relationship issues,negative thought,simply just day stress can make it hard to climax but it of course it could be,be it simply being sexually stimulated" "and aroused,in the right way for you after a break,we will be teaching you everything you neeed to know about the most popular sexual poition,the missionary and how this women doesn't let her size" "stop having great and fulfilling sex life" "End of part one" "Part two welcoem back to a girl's guid to 21st century sex coming up,a sexually transmited disease that has no symptom" "and how being immobily a beast hasn't stop one woman enjoying the fulfilling sex life" "now oral sex,most men love it but 45 pencent women don't like doing it but if it was done properly it could be one of the most enjoyable part of sex for both of you" "Here is Hollywood sex educator Lou Paget with her formula for giving your men the best oral sex" "good evening,and welcome to tonigh's 21st century workshop this evening,you are going to learn how to give your men the ultimate sexual pleasure also known as blow job" "I do not like the term blow job,the term is rather iky and besides,we as women know it has nothing to do with blowing the action of this is more about mimicking and making your hands and your mouths and ?" "vagina that is really what you create here you creating the three sensations that men say absolutely made for great intercourse when they first centrol women it's a combination of heat,pressure and moisture so you mouth is creating heat and moisture" "your hand is creating pressure you would say that your jaw gets... yeah,my jaw always hurts... and now you are using your jaw for the pressure if you attach your hand to your mouth like this and imagine a little ball bearing right here" "your jaw isn't creating pressure your mouth is open,is more open and this is creating pressure your ring at this,and pulling up,or through up and down or and the other thing you do your tongue is not just hanging out,Ok?" "your tongue is creating sensation on the back area the most one of sensitive as clitoris your hand and your mouth seal together you got 4 main motions you got up and down motions you got twisting motion of your hand coming up" "you got this is creating pressure coming up you mouth is creating the heat and moisture and your tongue is doing a back and forth motion" "I am going to show something that you can be incooperative while your mouth is here different thing to do the scroll up this is also called the stepchildren named because they belong to someone else and they often get ignored" "some men who do not like that they do take pleasrue,jsut say it is not pleasurable but here is the point I am going to show you lend me your arm when you go from point A to point B in straight line" "scratching,that is one sensation,OK?" "now,when you put a reguler pattern into it it is a different thing altogether feel the difference?" "you can be doing this on the scrotum lie gently,folding it again,treat it like small breakable edge you can gently stretch it with fingers" "once you build the intensity of the sensation do not fall back to a milder stimulation or instend of this,so if you mouth is geting tired and you doing something...,working here and also you start here...on the top of your tongue" "you basically have to last yourself like that for 5 minutes so that's why,if you have your hand incooperate at the same time you are maintaining the sensations so that is how you give your man the best oral sex he has ever had" "and please,do enjoy!" "most of us only have sex in one or two positions but there are hundreds of imaginative and inventive positions to have intercourse with your partner each has its own particular benefit for instance,some are more appropriate to the overweight or pregnant" "and others more suitable if your man has small penis the first position we are about to demostrate is often considered the most likely to give your G-spot orgasm it is always thought of the one most practised and the one most likely to get you pregnant" "it's the missionary position" "I should warn you that the material you are about to see is of particularly explicit nature" "the new mysterious orgin of the term, missionary position the most accepted is to date some era of christian missioanry rumor has it that holy men tried to press the unruly sexual practice of the native and persuade them that this is the only acceptable sexual position in the eye of the lord" "back home in the Victoria in England the position was considered the only one acceptable within marriage the missionary position remained hugely popular toping the famous 1940s KingZ Pole as American favored position" "It gained further ?" "in 1960s making the pages of the Oxford English Dictionary in 1969 missionary position,a position for sexual intercourse with the woman lying on her back and the man lying on top and facing her" "like any sexual position,it proceeds by foreplay a central part of intercourse which makes penetration easier" "foreplay is extremely important firstly,just so you allow the man and woman to be fully aroused you allow the entrance of vagina to open out the length of the vagina lubricated and for the vagina to enlongate,and to bloom at the end" "to allow penetration to take place without discomfortable pain foreplay involves just normal kissing,it involves touching,massage foreplay can extend beyond that to manual stimulation with the hand of the gentle area by the vagina and penis are oiling ?" "sex the stimulation,strolling and sucking make the breasts grow in size and nipples harden they can increase in height by up to centimeter the genital becomes excited too the ?" "rush to a red color and swell up to 3 times its normal size the stimulation of foreplay causes 6 times the normal amount of blood to rush the penis,making it fully erect so both bodies are fully prepared for intercourse" "the missionary position is scientificly thought to maximize your chance of production physiologically it's probably the most ultimate sexual uite you can achieve" "the missionary position is quite simply the woman lying on the back someone may have posiblly known she will part her legs,she may have a new bend or her legs straight out the other side the man will then get on top of her" "and enter from above,usually the woman maneuvers about the side to explore what happen to the body during missionary position cameras have been attached to the couple's skin the woman's nipple,man's pinis,and inside the vagina" "in the missionary position,the ?" "legs open slightly this allows the penis to penetrate directly right up to the hill and in this position, you get direct stimulation of clitoris ?" "the glans,or head of the penis,are highly sensitive and run along the vagina ?" "so the position is very stimulating for the man the woman's nipples stay erect throughout intercourse penetration in this position is thought to lead the orgasm for woman as if it stimulate the G-spot" "the G-spot is an area of very sensitive tissue which is just on the front wall of the vagina about 2-3 inches or so and during this position,the penis will stimulate this as the woman approaches orgasm,she may feel hard beating in her vagina" "and the ?" "in her ?" "at climax she experiences involantary muscle ?" "in the outering of her vagina and anus the man's orgasm pulls semen to be ejaculated deep inside the vagina and it's thought that sexual missioanry position is much more likely to lead conception" "the missionary position allows a pool of semen to collect at the surface next to the womb and this can make it easier for woman who tries to conceive" "after orgasm,the erection subsides rapidly and the major and minor lips of the vagina shrink back" "both bodies now return to pre-aroused state" "you may have thought the missionary position was a little doubt but there is far more to meet the eye but if you would like to try something even more advanturous there will be demonstrating other sexual positions in the coming weeks" "now sexually tansmitted infections is something we do ratherly ignore but here is what can happen if you do" "the old french word for brothel,clapier is thought to be the original slang term for gonorrhea,the clap it remains the most common sexually transmitted infection in the world" "up to 2/3 new cases are in young people under the age of 25 many of who would not know what they have" "gonorrhea has been known about as a bacterial infection for over 150 years although the clap may not sound like serious but untreated,gonorrhea can cause both serious and permanant health problems in both men and women" "gonorrhea is a bacteria that spreads from sexual contact either oral sex,or unprotective vagina anal sex it can infect the throat,it can infect the rectum and it can infect cervix,and urethra of women and men" "gonorrhea is highly infectious you stand up to 1 in 4 chance to catch it from your infective partner throughout unprotective sex" "more men diagnosed gonorrhea have symptoms that are easy to spot this slide shows the case that young man who are complaining of discharge you can see,this is a thick yellow discharge coming out of the tip of the penis" "there is some slight red around the head of the penis also yeah,this yellow discharge which has been there for about 3 days and it's intensively painful when he went for a pee he described that it is just like that pin broken glass" "if gonorrhea isn't treated at this stage the infection can spread up to walls of the bladder down the channel with connects the prostate gland and in through the texticle,where it causes severe inflammation it can cause epididymitis,inflammation of the tissure around the testicle" "and the testicle itself,and it can be very painful conditon if you are a man, you are quite likely to know if you got gonorrhea but about 80 percent of women may not experience any symptoms at all" "gonorrhea is more of a problem for a woman because they can not have a slight discharge,no discharge at all and they don't know they got the infection and of course,after a while the infection can travel through the uterus into the Fallopian tubes" "and cause condition called pelvic inflammatory disease(PID) and that is where tubes float with scars,blocked and get all contorted and then it becomes a really painful acute condition and if that is not diagnosed and treated appropriately" "the tubes can be damaged permanantly the womb can be yeld with tube infertility and chronic pelvic pain the gonorrhea bacteria can attach the body in some kind surpring places" "this slide shows a young man has the gonorrhea of the eye how wold somebody get gonorrhea in the eye well,if somebody has discharge from the penis and go for pee and the discharge in on the finger,and they roll their eyes" "you can easily transmit to yourself like that the other ways,just use your imagination gonorrhea is currently rised among the young people particularly in the city so what can you do to protect youself" "you can either say no you can always say yes,but always with a condom and you can say,see,we make a mistake,let's go and get ourself checked" "it's amazing the gonorrhea is still on the rise after all these years use condom every time you have sex to protect yourself and remmember you can catch gonorrhea in the throat too from oral sex now many people aquire sexyness with being thin" "but 40 pencent of women who are ?" "or over so can you still have sex even when you are overweight" "swedish researchers found in a study of 2100 women there was no significant difference in terms of the satisfaction with sex life between the beast people and normal weight people but in order to achieve that level of satisfaction overweight people need to make adjustment to their love making" "depending on your size the penis and vagina become more hidden in excess wall of fat so not all sexual positions will be achievable can you still lead a fulfilling sex life?" "of course,these people can still have sex and very fulfilling satisfied sex life you don't have be looking like a model in order to be sexy lots of people will think these people are sexy culture will think these people are sexy" "for example,for Caribbee gernally tend to like corpulent wowen so do like American and we are in the condition of this country and to think that skimy is beautiful that is not neccesarily the case" "36-year-old Homa is 24 ston and he has faced some of the challege of sex" "only ocassionally I have had sex with larger woman yeah,it has been quite awkard for example,there is one time a lady have ?" "long legs she couldn't get across me,unfortunately there is big about it,seems obvious you try to find out a new position it does mean you can't do it it's just,obviously,you got to work around it" "it's unfortunate,in some times because you miss out on certain things you like to do because they are favored,but you can't do it,rigidly,for physical reason however,active sexual experience,achieving the right position is the center" "the best sexual position to be used is the one that is comfrotable and enjoyed by both,clearly sexual activity is,actually,a good form of exercise even for the more beast and for that so many should not be discouraged" "but what's important,something is done in a way that is confortable,not with signifant risk and one that bring for them both the actual satisfaction because the man supports his weight on his arms and being a big guy,you can't be there so long" "before you are tired out as well as ?" ",you do turn this way which is nice slfishly being big,it's not nice for the person underneath because,obviously,obesity takes effect so it is not best thing in the world unfortunately you can't really do a lot,you can't move" "it's hard to get up,because when you like that you got to use a lot of energy to push off and back up if you need to get up the way if you can't get into certain position at the time" "don't kill the mood,don't spoil it just get to something else the foreplay,keep on going,going.... bacause at the end of the day,it's not all about the penetration a alternative to penetration is for the man to rub his penis" "along the fat foam on the woman's body this type of sex can be performed with greater ease but whichever way you choose to have sex if you are overweight,you need to be cautious" "the health risk being a beast for a man are much greater to got heart disease about 4 times the normal rate but if only become a super beast,you are looking at as many as 20 times to get heart disease" "4 times the risk to get diabetes and of course,erect disfunction problem having and maitaining erection and just physical inability to become sexually active super-size Teighlor weighs over 300 pounds yet she has no problem enjoying sex" "I think the bigest myths about fat people can't have sex orgasm is unachievable,nothing could be further from the truth" "Teighlor has no problem attracting the opposite sex" "?" ",but I do get a lot brothers because,for years,they drawn pictures of women like me thinking there is never anybody really out there that looks like that and then here I am in the flesh we call the men who like large women ?" "fat admirer men who like large women can consider so very femaline and very ?" "because we do feel like a little cloud for then once the ?" "partner that have norm psychological reason why people who are overwight beast can enjoy sex it's bold self-esteem if they want someone who need some feel good then they could have a good sex life" "well,many people rule out the way will enjoy a healthy sex life you must be careful if you experience any breathlessness or chest pain during sex you should contact your doctor" "still to come,why some women prefer to have sex with other women what they can teach men about arousal and orgasm" "End of Part Two" "Part Three welcome back to a girl's guide to 21st century sex" "1 in 4 womem have fantasized about having sex with another woman it's because they believe another woman truly know to arouse them" "many men admitted to fantasizing about lesbian sex but by definition,lesbians are sexually interested in men hollywood star Angelina Jolie has been voted as the woman most lesbians want to have sex with it's now even considered cheat" "and it doesn't take long for hollywood ?" "hollywood most famous lesbian couple in recent years" "Ellen DeGeneres and Alexandra Hedison split last year after Ellen's very public affairs with actress Portia de Rossi" "the word di,first appeared in newspaper in 1710 to describe two crossdress in Climax" "once precieved ?" ",di has been ?" "by some lesbians who characterized themself bush di if they are more masculine or baby di if they are yound and ?" "and the term lipstick lesbian sometimes refers to women who express their more glamous side" "in the UK,around 6 percent the population are gay,lesbian or bisexual it's impossible to determinate the exact figure because people's sexual preference is going to change during the lifetime" "you find that a lot of ?" "and questioning women who have experience look like lesbian saying these days can be not just it used to be i think that's what our society is going and you know that is not a healthy thing a lot of women that will bisexual" "and some lesbian women that will clearly tell you that it is about the person it may not be necessarily just about the body part everybody is born with your ability love the same sex,physically and emotionally but our evironment and our experiences,you know,deter who will become ?" "in part of my life,i just want to love a woman" "I am not interested in men,men as friends,great still fancy them,but I am not interested and have no relationship them there is no facet of lesbian today they can be anywhere and anyone they can be judges,they can be teachers,they be dancers" "and now it is just all about if I look at famous women,I can't tell who is gay who is not they got this all about them,hard to screen out" "I am a lesbian as well because we are just like more femaline and girly perhaps,we have not got that all about us we live with women mysteriously,we are like "is she?" "isn't she?"" "so you can't tell,quite like that way it's more mysterious,more fun we are female,we know our body really well so we know what we like it's probally easy for us to give a woman pleasure than perhaps a man" "?" "and toutching such variety the connection is about the body together,and just the way women are with one another it's just,I almost think it's just a name that two feeling that women have with each other" "a lot of people think that lesbian sex is all gental classic sweet,nice,as opposed to a man raviging a woman hetersexually but no,women can pretty nasty with each other and tear each other's clothes off and go at it" "sex is sex with lesbians it's posible to do every think-of position that is for a male and female from your oral 69 position to doggy,going on top all of that,it's exactly what you could do with a guy" "and there is no boundary because you can do everything only put your mind to it,you can do anything you want to do comparing the whole thing it used to be,women are more sxually ?" "the better ability to express sensational desire and to expect a man in being controll of sex before,you know,probably up to 1970s adn 1980s men are almost in charge of sex but there is no woman that can quite happily take control" "I like to have sex with women pretty much the same way I do with men" "I mean there is no difference especially when you use toys instead of that overly penis but sometimes it's even better because they ?" "break 67 percent women having sex with women use sex toys as part of their love making and 15 percent admit to use a ?" "but what's applea of the substitue penis" "I feel quite masculine,it's not the easist thing to use if you do have to get a nap of it because like swinging it's swinging you have get the nap of that" "partly engaged agressively there,I think because the masculine thing wearing a cock,make you" "because I feel like right on the man,I am taking controll and cuase you are really taking controll,aren't you?" "I really enjoy,because it needs you both do youself,I mean this there is more on oral share,because by sharing at the same time so it's very much,I can see the toy and her" "she can see the toy and me and we both working together,both giving each other the pleasure at the same time you don't have to use like front on,you can turn around you can do anything like that,like want to suck people" "in each other,whatever,I just think it's more passionate toy the bigest myth is that lesbians are waiting for a real man who can change them" "there is no real man out there that can change their percetion,their love of other human female form" "I can say the beauty in a woman and why wouldn't you want to be a woman by selecting god,they are amazing,they are gorgeous much of us will have a pretty,beautiful,gorgeous,stuning girl" "becuase that is what's nice to my eye just make you think full" "our mission on a girl's guide to 21st century sex is to get you experiencing and enjoying better sex we can give you tips and advice but ultimately it's up to you to express youself and put into action" "so joint us next week,cause we continue our journey to the facts,the myths and the science of human sexuality next time in a girl's guide to 21st century sex every man has a secret desire to be bigger" "but do the DIY penis enlargement work?" "the secret behide the stimulation of the female penis,the clitoris and the shocking terrible woman who cut off her husband's penis and the ground-breaking surgical attemp to reattach it"