"People always ask me, why I chose Malawi and I tell them I didn't, it chose me." "I got a phone call from a woman named Victoria Keelan;" "she was born and raised in Malawi." "She told me that there are over 1 million children orphaned by AIDS." "She said there weren't enough orphanages and that the children were everywhere." "Living on the streets, sleeping under bridges, hiding in abandoned buildings, being abducted, kidnapped, raped." "She said it was a state of emergency." "She sounded exhausted and on the verge of tears." "I asked her how I could help, she said, "You're a person with resources, people pay attention to what you say and do."" "I felt embarrassed, I told her I didn't know where Malawi was." "She told me to look it up on a map." "And then she hung up on me." "I decided to investigate, and I wound up finding out much more than what I bargained for." "About Malawi, about myself, about humanity." "There is a phrase in the Zulu Language that says "Amnuntu Abuntu Ubantu"," "I am because we are." "Think about it, I'm not defined without you." "#I AM BECAUSE WE ARE#" "Africa has a glorious legacy." "Africa used to be a refuge." "People came from other parts of the world, because they wanted to get food, they came to Africa when they were running away from persecution, they came to Africa." "People ask me, why do you love it so much there?" "And I always say it's because they have the highest percentage of people," "I believe anywhere on Earth, who wake up every day with a song in their heart." "They sing through their pain and their need, and the madness of people around them." "It's almost like an ingrained wisdom of more than a hundred thousand years." "#FANZIO#" "My name is Fanizo, I come from the Khanda Village." "I am an orphan." "I often think about not having a mother or father, this makes me feel uncomfortable." "I feel sad because when I am with my friends, they are able to tell me the good things their parents are doing for them." "For me, there is no one to give me these opportunities." "I miss the love from my mother." "Most of the time there is no encouragement for me to go to school which my parents would have given me." "One of my biggest problems is lack of food." "Most of the time we eat only once a day." "This is not a problem just for me, but many people in my village suffer the same." "Hidden from the rest of the world," "Malawi has suffered more than one can sometimes imagine." "UN statistics estimate that 66% of the population lives on less than one dollar a day." "It's the second poorest country in the world." "AIDS has left Malawi with an estimated 1 million orphans." "In a country of 12 million people, so many children without parents has caused irreparable damage." "This alone is an enormous problem, yet there is another aspect that has gone unnoticed." "We can raise awareness, we can build orphanages, we can make medicine more accessible, and we can help diversify their crops." "These things are essential, but are they enough?" "This is a story about Malawi, but perhaps it's a story about all of us." "As technology brings us closer together, we seem to be a world spinning out of control, growing father and farther apart from one another." "Inequality, disorder, calamity, and violence, in the world at large, in Africa, in are own backyard." "We have reached a moment in time where it is impossible to not pay attention to the devastation, and inexplicable suffering that surrounds us." "Everyone needs food in their bellies, and a roof over their head, and a chance for a better life." "Some of us need guidance, others needs hope and a sense of direction." "Everyone needs parents." "But what if there are no parents?" "And whose job is it then to look after these motherless children?" "Malawi is often called the warm heart of Africa, but that heartbeat is beginning to slow down." "This is one of the few countries which can still offer a comfortable life with free ways and a climate comparable to anywhere in the world." "And hundreds of families have settled down here to give and receive their share of prosperity growing faster than anywhere else in Africa." "Malawi joined a federal system of government between, what was then, Northern Rhodesia, which is now Zambia..." "Southern Rhodesia, which is now Zimbabwe, and Nyasaland, now Malawi." "The new state, which is called the Federation of Rhodesia and Nyasaland." "Nyasaland was a small country." "And I'm afraid its priorities slipped even though we generally... we were going to do things for them." "We kept on finding that other things cropped up which seemed to us, more important." "So, they got left behind." "I think it really is as simple as that." "There was no idea of letting them down or anything, but it just failed on it's, against other things." "On March the third, 1959, Sir Robert Armitage declared a state of emergency." "Dr. Banda and thirteen hundred other Nyasaland activists were detained." "I said I'd come back home to do two things." "To break their stupid federation, I used to call it... and to give you my people, your own government." "I've spoken some of my speeches what I called the wind of change, which is blowing through the continent." "The wind of change speech signaled the British governments recognition that it could no longer resist African nationalism." "And then the next big debt that came is sixth of July 1964 when Malawi became independent from the British." "The Malawi flag is un-felled." "During the first era of administration by Africans in Malawi, we went through 31 years of a dictatorship." "It was a brutal dictatorship." "I don't believe about beating about the bush." "Dr. Banda was one of those people who wanted to present Malawi as a country that was doing very well." "So to admit that there was a problem of HIV/AIDS was like accepting defeat, which is a great pity." "For several years, nobody was allowed to say anything about it." "The historical aspects of it are also very interesting because to talk about sex in Malawi, family planning, or anything of that nature was taboo." "We are really poverty stricken in Malawi, and with the scourge of HIV/AIDS it's even worse because HIV/AIDS is even taking the lives of young men and women who are supposed to develop this country." "Who are supposed to contribute to the economy of this country, to the growth of this country." "But as a result of HIV/AIDS, the economy of this country and the development of this country is being retarded, because young people, educated people are passing away." "Every year, every month, every week in Malawi people are dying of HIV/AIDS." "Malawi is one of the very poorest places on the whole planet and all of the difficulties of poverty, of hunger, of disease;" "they all come together in this landlocked country." "Without help, they face a crisis virtually unlike any other on the planet." "We are now 15 years into the epidemic and on average your progression from being HIV positive to developing AIDS is 10 years." "So in actual fact, more and more people are dying because we are so much further into the epidemic." "In Africa, 70, 80% of people are still living in rural areas." "So getting the care to them is really critically important." "That removes one of the biggest barriers, which is transportation to and from a point where you can be, you know, diagnosed." "#EDITH AND SINODE#" "It's very difficult for us to get to a hospital." "It will cost about 250 Kwacha, US $2, to get there." "How's she going to get to a district hospital?" "She doesn't have a car of course." "To ride a bicycle, let's say fifteen miles to a district hospital, you have to be in pretty good shape, and the woman weighs 75 pounds." "If a bicycle taxi was available would you go to the hospital?" " Yes" "You've got to pay for transport;" "once you are in a hospital you have got to look after yourself so you need to bring someone with you." "And it's expensive, and you've got to remember that in a lot of the rural areas, there isn't a cash economy." "Make the services convenient to poor people." "Make sure that they don't have to schlep for five hours on a donkey, a bike, or on foot." "Let's do something to make this better." "We have to provide basic medical services for people living in poverty." "For a sick person like her to go by bicycle is just too difficult." "For now, we have stopped to see if a car comes past." "You can have malaria, bilharsia, tuberculosis, HIV/AIDS... all of them potentially are killers in Malawi and Malaria you know is one of the biggest killers in Malawi." "All of them are treatable, but why this one?" "Why is this one so different?" "It's because it is wrapped up in this social enigma, because culturally it is not something you can talk about." "All fatal wasting diseases for which there is no treatment are stigmatized, because death is stigmatized." "I think we more openness." "The government has to come upfront and start talking about it, encourage people to talk about this, as openly and as freely as we can." "And until we have resources, commitment, and hard work, we are going to have stigma." "The reason why you are in this room is to get your blood tested, to check if you have the virus or not." "Are you willing to get your blood tested?" "Yes, I am willing to." "Our results are back." "It shows that you and your child have the virus that causes AIDS." "They found me with HIV/AIDS" "They found out that I have AIDS." "I was found positive." "That's when they told me I have HIV." "We are both HIV positive." " I have HIV." "I also have HIV." "This is a chance for us to get together and solve problems that are already having terrible daily consequences for hundreds of millions of people who we don't see." "They are voiceless, they're off the radar screen often, but they are suffering from the inaction of a world that promised to help yet hasn't moved to help." "She is poor and dying of something that we know is treatable, she doesn't have money;" "we have to say humans actually deserve this as a right." "Disease coming from ecology causes poverty." "Poverty causes disease." "It goes around in a vicious circle and by helping the poor to get access to the things they need to be healthy in medicines in preventive techniques... this is the way to break the vicious circle of poverty, disease, to poverty to disease," "that holds so many hundreds of millions of people in that trap of extreme poverty in Africa." "We must now begin to break this silence, because if we don't, then all these problems that we are facing," "HIV/AIDS and so on, the numbers of orphans will continue." "My future is gone." "I have failed to do what I wanted to do." "I want to look after my child." "He is only 8 years old." "I wish he could grow up, finish his school and be well educated." "I wish I could go and walk outside." "If I see people talking, chatting, laughing," "I wish I could go and join them." "I always pray when I am at home, so that God should heal me and that I should be able to walk again." "I often think about how I am going to die anytime soon and how my son is going to suffer." "I can't compare my suffering to other children but when I was six years old my mother died." "It's unfathomable, I can't explain the pain that I felt so I think I really have a connection to children who lose their parents." "When you lose your parents you lose your direction, you lose your focus in life and you think "oh my God, I have no future."" "When I see these kids here and I think, they've lost their father, they've lost their mother, they lost their house, and yet they still can smile about it," "I think how could I ever feel bad about anything and it gives you such an appreciation for life." "My mother died in 2003, my father died in 1997." "I knew my Mother had been ill since December." "I didn't expect her to die." "I don't remember my Dad since I was too young." "I am not the only one." "#FRED#" "There are many orphans in my village who are experiencing the same thing." "We always leave everything in the hands of the Lord." "It doesn't make us happy at all." "Everyone needs parents." "I would have been happy if she lived to an age where I could have taken care of her." "She only suffered for us, and never had the chance to enjoy the fruits of her labor." "We are left with three of us in our family." "Thoko, Mavuto, and myself." "#JOYCE#" "When my mother was sick, she stopped working in the field." "I was the one taking care of her." "She got much worse and went back to the hospital for the second time." "We were left here suffering, sleeping on the wet floor." "When the rain was falling our house was leaking, and we were freezing, even the door wouldn't close." "Somewhere, there will always be someone suffering because of the loss of their parents." "No one chooses to lose their parents." "When we see other orphans out begging we go and chat with them." "We try to make them laugh, to feel a little bit better." "In the future?" "The way I see it?" "I can't see anything because right now I have too many problems." "My request is, if you are going to be assisting us to solve these problems, please help us to forget that we are orphans." "Just things like making sure children are happy." "When you link the desire to help people have a future and feel good about their own engagement," "I think that is the most powerful thing that we can do." "My name is Weize Ulanda." "I'm 9 years old." "My mother is dead." " Your mother died?" " Yes" "Weizi is one of 500 orphans at Home of Hope." "She is one of two and a half million children living with AIDS in Africa." "Because of the AIDS epidemic, we have more orphans living in this home than we would have in the past years." "We know that most of the children we have here, either their parents, both parents or one parent has died from AIDS." "Home of Hope orphanage is crowded and dirty." "The entire time I spent there I only met two adults." "It felt like a small city run by kids." "Waize is the youngest of 6 children and she is the last remaining alive." "She has no idea of her illness;" "she simply knows that she takes a small pill each morning." "She often suffers from headaches and constantly has wounds on her body." "She doesn't cry but you can tell she is suffering." "What happens to someone like Waize?" "How do you tell her that she has the same disease that took the lives of her family?" "And if she grows up, will she be shunned by society?" "What will prepare her for the challenges she will face being HIV positive?" "On the other hand, Weize is lucky." "Her grandmother travels once a month to collect ARVs for her." "ARVs stands for Anti-Retro-Viral, these are the life saving drugs that can keep a person alive who has been diagnosed with AIDS." "But what about the children that have no one to make sure they are taking their medication?" "Will they even get tested?" "And if they do, will it be too late?" "When I first met Weizi she was responsible for looking after three infants." "This is one of the children she looked after, his name is David." "His mother had died in childbirth, his three siblings were also dead, no one knew where his father was." "I realized at this moment the reality, or rather the insanity, of children looking after children." "When I returned to Malawi three months later David's health had deteriorated." "He had pneumonia, and malaria, and God knows what else." "There was no medicine for him at Home of Hope." "Nor any means to treat his illnesses." "What was I prepared to do?" "If I was challenging people to open up their minds and their hearts, then I had to willing to stand at the front of the line." "I decided to try and adopt him, the rest is history." "We are looking, 10-15 years down the road with a complete generation gap." "A generation where there is going to be no mothers, no fathers, between the ages of 25 to 35, how does a nation cope with that?" "A year or so ago, somebody brought two kids." "One was 9, and the other was 7, and they were living in a garage and the 9 year old was the head of the household." "It's almost like telling a fable," "I mean it's just a story." "But these are not statistics we are referring to." "We are talking about people of flesh and blood." "The daughter of, the son of, the brother of." "Put a face of someone you love on those figures." "What saddens me most is when I see an orphan when I'm in the constituency and they come with their grandmothers or perhaps sometimes on their own and they tell me that they have been selected to go to secondary school" "and they are looking for money, say one thousand six-hundred Kwacha, which is less than about ten dollars." "Sometimes I don't have the ten dollars and I say to them I'm sorry I can't help." "Then they go, and I sit in my office and say," ""No, I must do something about it."" "And then I have to find the money, the ten dollars to pay for them, but then that is just a term." "And then I pay, but then I find that there are so many coming to me, the numbers are now are accumulating and I reach a point where I have to say, "No, I cannot pay for you and it's only tne dollars."" "The fee for secondary school is about ten, twelve dollars per term, to empower a small kid, to go through school, four years of secondary education at about forty dollars a year." "But even that people cannot afford." "You've got a million kids in trouble." "You've got 12 year old headed households that should never be." "Imagine your own 12 year old running a home, it's not possible and yet these kids are expected to be kids and adults with no education, and no family environment to nurture them." "When I visit say, a child headed family, and I find there is nobody assisting them." "Perhaps it's just a 13 year old with maybe three other children to look after, and you ask them, and they have nothing to eat." "Literally nothing, they don't even have a house..." "I saw a family where there was a blind uncle with the children... and I had to go home and I thought that I shouldn't leave the children..." "I thought I needed to take them with me, but I thought I had nobody to look after them at my house because I move around all the time." "The infectious disease burden is huge globally and the deaths caused by infectious disease are really overwhelming, especially among children and young adults." "Once you turn over the rock, look at one problem..." "AIDS in Africa, say, then you get to think about a lot of other problems." "#NSANJE DISTRICT HOSPIDAL MALAWI#" "#JOYCE AND AARON#" "My child died with AIDS." "I also have it." "I lost my child, I will never have him back." "When death comes upon us like this she needs to be cleansed." "The person who has to cleanse this woman is referred to as a "Wapadera"." "This person comes from outside the village." "This man already has a wife, he is the one that sleeps with her." "No one in the village is allowed to have sex until she is cleansed." "When the man is about to have sex with her he says "Ndikupita kufa"." "Cleansing death." "It is important that they have sex 3 times on the first day." "In the morning the man says, "Ndikupita unyalumbi", you have been cleansed." "I am just a child, I do not have the authority to change their decision." "That's the way it is." "Yes this process continues to spread HIV, but this process also does not continue to spread HIV." "These two are very separate because this cleansing ritual was around long before AIDS." "AIDS is the guest." "This tradition started a long time ago." "Before me, before our ancestors, and our ancestors before that." "It is the AIDS that wants to disturb our tradition." "Actually, it has already disturbed us." "It's not good." "Because my child has died, I must go through with this." "After she has been cleansed, her life can go back to normal." "Will I live like this forever?" "Most village headmen do not teach against HIV/AIDS and the fact is that can't they understand and they can't even teach." "The people you know, are really hardcore believers I should say in their traditional cultures, they don't want to change." "The chief is the custodian of the tradition and culture." "For most of the chiefs, it's an economic benefit." "When you stop people from doing what they are doing, you need to give them an alternative." "Training for chiefs, they need to have an income in order for them to stop looking for income from anywhere else." "So we need to empower the women, we need to send the children to school, but we need to focus on the chief as well." "How much?" "One can attribute to the underdevelopment of Malawi to a number of reasons." "The big issue overriding is vision, where there is no vision, the people perish." "Two is a leadership vacuum that has existed in many countries in Africa." "The third one may sound strange but it is superstition" "we have seen in Malawi, a worsening of a situation." "Increasing incidents of witchcraft, superstition, things of that nature and it's not surprising because of the deepening of the poverty." "There could be a linkage with the deepening of the poverty and the desperation shown on people in order to try and address the issue of poverty." "I feel safe on this road today because you are with me." "Many bad things have happened along this road." "Things taken by robbers, people have even been killed." "It scares me to think we could be killed or have our body parts cut off." "In the initial days we thought it was just folk tales, but now we have seen it with our own naked eyes." "Our boy's even girls are under threat of being mutilated by people who believe that they will get rich." "#LUKA#" "It's OK, we're not going to hurt you." "Calm down, calm down." "The incident happened, not on the first, second or third, but the fourth trough in the field." "We found this by following the footsteps and finding where the blood was." "Luka's brother:" "We found him coming out from the fields." "He had blood all over him." "I was sent to go and buy paraffin." "I got given the money and was told I could keep the change." "I never got to buy anything because these people started chasing me." "They grabbed my arm and dragged me into this field." "Don't cut me!" "Don't cut me!" "Then they removed my private parts." "It's been a year since Luka's attack." "I wanted to know if this was an isolated incident or a common occurrence." "I went to his village." "His entire family lived in one room." "His father told me he could not control his bladder, and was no longer going to school because he was being teased by other children." "Its now the whole country." "The danger is that there is so much secrecy surrounding it, so much that we don't know how bad it is." "The first thing we had to do was find Luka proper medical attention." "Not easy on the outskirts of Lillongwe." "We found a pediatrician that would operate on him." "Unfortunately it was a six hour drive." "When arrived the hospital was closing, but the doctor was kind enough to stay open and do the procedure." "After a series of operations," "Luka has been able to function like other little boys." "I have seen him kicking a football around, and laughing with his friends." "We found a private school for him to walk to with his brothers." "And we were also able to find his family a new house, with floors, and a door." "This is our house." "The sitting room." "That's my bedroom where I sleep." "This is the mat I sleep on." "I know I haven't solved all of his problems, and who knows what will happen to him when he begins to go through puberty." "But at least, it's a start." "The desperation we are seeing in our society is extremely dangerous, and destructive." "Kids are abducted, their body parts removed, in the name of witchcraft, superstition and things of that nature." "Horrible, unacceptable, sad what poverty can bring." "The inhumanity of man to man is terrible." "Horror cannot be the end of the reaction, it's got to be the beginning of it." "Where's it come from?" "Why is it horrible?" "Of course there are crazy cruel things that happen all over the world, but a lot of the things that are dismissed as cruel, are cruel, but they come from somewhere that is again related to poverty and inequality." "And I think that understanding these beliefs and doing something to palliate the suffering is the way to move forward." "Generations do not cease to be born, and we are responsible to them." "Because we are the only witnesses they have." "The sea rises, the light fails, lovers cling to each other, and children cling to us." "The moment we cease to hold each other, the moment we break faith with one another, the sea engulfs us, and the light goes out." "When you look at the desperately poor places, at the places in extreme poverty; we see instability, we see violence, we see the spread of disease, we see despair." "This isn't because people are bad or immoral, they are living in desperate conditions." "They don't have the productivity, the tools." "We are now in Gowa, it's a slum area in the city of Lilongwe its what we call a peri-urban area." "It has a population of approximately 47 thousand, of that population two thirds would be youth under the age of 15." "You can see that every time you pass young children that should be in school, but they are not in school." "This area has got a very high rate of HIV AIDS prevalence, most of the people are migrant, and they come and go they don't live here permanently." "It's an area that has very poor sanitation." "These are houses people live in this." "And this is their garbage disposal, which will remain here." "You can see that there is no government intervention because if this is happening the first thing the city would do is come and look at the garbage disposal in this area." "The place is just filthy, it's just a sewage mess." "This is a toilet, an open toilet." "The children, they are walking around, they are sitting in the sand," "They get worms." "Its all sorts of things, its one after the other." "The rains are coming in November and soon all this will come apart, the sewage will start coming up, and people will die of malaria, typhoid and cholera." "It's hard to understand how these areas continue to go unnoticed." "They are neither villages where people live off the land, or urban areas where people have job opportunities." "They are more like death camps." "In-between poverty traps where people come to die." "What's happening, why is everybody silent about this?" "And this is not the only slum area, but people keep saying there are no slums in Malawi." "The poverty that we have in Malawi, it had created other problems, serious social problems." "But yet there's a sense of denial." "This is dangerous stuff." " Dangerous stuff, why do ask?" "We are trying to find people that can do some construction work." "It's a seasonal job, but at least they will have some job to do." "Rather than come and sit here and just drink because drinking is not going to do anything for you." "Honestly this is not worth it." " What does the word entertainment mean?" "It's enjoying yourself, so aren't you enjoying yourself?" "But you are enjoying yourself at the expense of your children and your wife." "You need to go home." "Sleep." "Wake up." "Smile with your wife, spend time with your children, and have a good family." "Show that you are the man." "You are there to protect, and to nurture your family." "I appreciate that, I appreciate that." "You don't appreciate if you are still sitting here." "That's the life isn't it." "They come straight home from work, into the drinking place." "They don't go home." "Shaddup!" " They end up..." " Yeah you!" "I think one of the biggest problems we have," "I know not just in Malawi, but mainly across Africa, is this what I can call this Victim Mentality." "In other words, people play victim." "They look for causes elsewhere, outside themselves, other than themselves." "So there's a tendency to do what I call scape goating, blame everything else." "For example if a person got drunk last night and they have a smashing headache in the morning, the best explanation would be they have been bewitched by someone overnight." "What that means is that they are not willing to change because you cannot change what you don't accept, you can only change what you accept." "Please, please can I have some money?" "Your whole body stinks of beer." "Then only give me a little bit of money, so I cannot afford beer." "But then you will ask someone else for money and still use it to buy beer." "The other side of victim hood is entitlement." "It means you actually do not have a sense of responsibility." "I am an adult, I have responsibility, yes I may have rights, but I certainly have... obligations." "There's a sense of denial that says, we are not responsible for this." "Even if we acknowledge it, how do we address the problem." "Is it a sign of failure, if we do accept that we do have a problem." "I want to tell one African Proverb that says" ""no one can shave your head in your absence."" "Now what they means, is that you must always see your role in whatever happens, there's a role that you play either by acts of omission, or acts of commission, but there's something there that you have to take responsibility for." "This then will move us away from this victim mentality." "We are raising children in this situation and we expect them to be good citizens at the end of the day, I don't think so." "We really need to empower people." "External solutions are okay as a temporary measure in the way like a band-aid, if somebody's bleeding you put a little bit of a band-aid but you must go to the root cause of the problem." "It's easy to make judgments when you come here, and think that it's a hopeless situation." "And that Malawians are suspicious, indifferent, or not interested in changing." "After years of poverty, famine, and unnecessary suffering, it's normal to be suspicious of the outside world's intervention, and to want to cling to what is familiar." "Even though you know it's holding you back." "The question is, how do we break this cycle?" "How do we prevent this next generation of children from repeating history?" "And accepting that they cannot change their destiny." "The next question is, aren't we all entrenched in this behaviour." "If you do something consistently, the same thing, over and over again." "Getting one type of result and yet you are expecting a different type of result, there's no better definition of insanity than that." "I'm a single parent I've raised five children on my own, and I know what it is, to go without, to lack, and I also know that if you do something about it you can get out of it." "Society gets decimated, we are losing our children, the youth, the most progressive and active part of our society, that's unacceptable." "We either change, or we die." "I mean, that's the choice." "But how?" "Malawi needs change desperately." "And yet there are so many things I would never want to change." "The people that live here are amazing." "I often feel like we are the ones that have it wrong?" "In spite of all the hardships and devastation, they have a sense of community and extended family that I haven't seen anywhere else." "Look around you..." "If someone on your street lost a member of their family would everyone in the neighborhood get together and cook a meal, to make sure the children were looked after?" "Or to simply share in the burden of grief." "When you travel around Malawi, you see how diverse the landscape is." "Couple that with the resiliency of the people." "It's hard to understand why there is so much suffering." "Life is a paradox, and there's duality in everything." "And on the one hand you can come to Malawi and you can say wow, these people are so caught up in these traditions that are thousands of years old." "But on the other hand you can walk down the street and you can wave to people and you can smile and there's a sense of humanity that you don't find in places like America, or England." "It feels like modernization equals no humanity." "You get trapped when you come here, and you get caught up in this dichotomy where you think if they could only understand what I understand then they could fix everything, then I look at they way they live" "and I think, Oh god, they have illnesses, and they have cultural traditions that seem antithetical to life, and yet they're happy." "And you could drive down a street in Beverly Hills, you can drive down Central Park West, you could drive down Park Lane, and you don't see that kind of joy." "You don't see that kind of happiness." "So who's right?" "Being in Africa has made me understand that suffering is subjective, there is an enourmous amount of suffering here that is really tangible." "People are dying if illnesses, they are hungry, they don't have parents, they don't have a roof over their head, they don't have so many basic things that we take for granted, and yet they have an appreciation, and a joy" "and a gratitude that we could never understand." "Sometimes people look at the situation in Africa and think it's hopeless, and that it's overwhelming." "But when you look at the spirit of Africans, you see not only is it not hopeless, the solutions are right there in front of us." "It starts with the Africans, wanting to be empowered, ready to take up the challenge." "They just need the tools, to get themselves out of poverty." "The Africans are more eager today to tackle their own problems." "And they're looking for people who will empower them to do that." "Give them the means, to setup a fabric of life that will enable them to take on all of these challenges." "Very basic techniques of modern farming at very low cost, can triple, or even raise by five times, the yield that a typical small farmer gets." "I will continue with this new farming method, because I know that food is life." "Africa can grow more food, Africa can fight disease," "Africa can overcome economic isolation." "It requires investment, it requires help, it requires partnership." "You go in to treat AIDS, you use a community care base model, you create jobs for poor people where there's huge unemployment." "You start training people to understand HIV, you give jobs to people with HIV." "People can be agents of change, people can be involved in improving their communities." "If you look at the population of Malawi, it has over 12 million people." "Out of which, over a million people are orphans." "And these are kids. and these are the future generation that will build this country, that will make a decision as to whether this is the direction that Malawi is taking or not." "So if we don't tell them what to do now, what are they going to do about their country?" "All of those emptiness's, if they are not dealt with, are going to leave us with people who are damaged psychologically." "Who will frequently be very insecure, will then tend to compensate for that by being aggressive, because they don't have a sense of worth, they don't feel cherished." "#MALAWI JUVENILE PRISON#" "When I began my career I was focused mostly on working with law enforcement and criminal justice agencies." "Overtime as I was exposed to more of what's out there and what the situation is and what the problem is," "I began to see that the solution doesn't lie in locking people up, the solution really lies in working with kids before things actually happen." "I went to my uncles." "On a windowsill, I saw a camera and money." "I took it and was caught by a boy who shouted, "thief!"" "When I was caught, people started beating me up." "After beating me up, they called the police." "I am in prison for a house breaking crime." "When my parent's died, my way of living changed." "Life in prison is hard." "Most of these have no parents, or an extended family to pay for a lawyer, so they will be moved into an adult prison when they turn 18." "And most likely spend the rest of their lives in jail for crimes as innocuous as stealing a camera, a car, or a radio." "It's not about right and wrong, that is going to make a child be successful in life." "Its about creating a certainty, a belief in their future, in where they're going, a direction in life." "Looking at the extremes of a place like Malawi, of course its necessary to provide basic needs for these children." "No one can deny that." "But the question is, is that enough when you have a situation as extreme as here." "While it is as important to meet their external needs, food and clothes, and home, and schooling, it is so desperately important that their emotional needs, their psychological needs, their spiritual needs are not overlooked," "in-fact they ought to be stressed even more than the others." "SFK stands for Spirituality For Kids." "We're really talking about a child being able to tap into who they are, seeing their gifts and strengths no matter what's going on in their lives, as well as an orientation towards the community, to others." "Every problem, there is a solution you can choose." "I know in this world there's many challenges, but every challenge." "I know there is a solution to solve that challenge." "You can take charge of your life." "My job is to tell them that they have got something to do, and they've got the power, to change their community, to change their nation." "When I see the children to think positively to say I've got the power to change my nation, my heart will be happy forever." "I think what's at the core of SFK, is that we are all in control of the world around us." "For so many years I played the victim card." "When you tap into that consciousness it keeps you from moving ahead." "You get into a cycle of self-destructive behaviour." "If I could think of a phrase that summed up Spirituality for Kids its more like, you are somebody, believe in yourself." "You are not the sum total of your surroundings, you can change your destiny." "And more than anything that's what these kids need." "The bottom line is accepting that I am responsible for my actions, really understanding that there is a system of cause and effect." "Let's look at this green domino." "It should be the cause." "The yellow piece is the effect." "So the one's on the middle, we should look at these as time." "The things we have done are like seeds, and they will have their effects right up to the end." "Its understandable, that they've developed that feeling of helplessness." "They've developed that belief system that they can't go anywhere with their lives." "So if I touch this one, will the last one on this side still fall?" "Yes!" "Let us see." "When you understand the concept of cause and effect you choose to do actions carefully, knowing for sure to say whatever I do today, has an effect at a certain point in my life." "We all belong." "And what hurts the one, whether we are not aware of it immediately, affects the others as well." "I've been working with similar initiatives, for kids in disadvantaged communities, around the world it began in eight school in Tijuana and because of it's success it exploded all over the world." "It went country wide in Mexico, then Columbia, Peru, El Salvador, Lebanon." "The kids these universal tools they're learning about, and apply them to their own lives, their own neighbourhoods, their own families." "A vision is needed, a sense of direction, coming from these tools of empowerment, for the children, and this is the generation of future leaders." "We can see therefore how we can change society itself." "I have always wanted to do something with my life." "There's one voice inside me that says" ""you cannot finish school as you come from a poor family."" "Another voice tells me that "I should work hard and I will finish."" "I realize now that if you don't believe in yourself people will be discouraged and they won't want to help you because they think you are a failure." "If someone sees that I am hardworking, they will want to help me." "Aren't these the fears of every child, and isn't it our job to help them understand their fears." "And encourage them to find ways to realize their dreams." "Resiliency is a universal concept." "Its not something that one child has or another does not, these are strengths inside each and every one of us." "My mother passed away." "My father's not around." "Where I am from they tell me" "I am too old to go to school and that I should stop going." "But I just persevere." "An inner resilience enables you to stand up to quite a lot externally." "You don't have to be rich to be good, to be generous, to be compassionate, to care about the other." "With that basic foundation in the children, how much better off could they be if we could support them and provide them the tools and the skills and the resources to move forward." "Across Africa individuals and communities are showing by their actions and telling in our conversations their hope for the future, their determination, to get out of the trap that they're in." "And what's amazing, the human connection is immediate." "When people have hope and determination, thats the contagion." "Send!" "Sharing love through sending messages." "So they wrote different messages on the piece of paper, and time I was saying send they were sending that message to each other" "What was your message?" " Missing you and I wish you all the best." "When I first met Fanizo the only future he could see was where his next meal was going to come from." "But as time passed, his confidence grew." "He had the courage to ask me to help him get into a good school." "I told him I would help, but he would have to study hard." "No free rides." "We shook hands on it." "At the beginning of the summer he took his first exam at a prestigious academy." "The results came in." "The headmaster said he was bright, but his English wasn't good enough for enrolment." "He spent the next three months with an English tutor, and then went back for the second time to take another exam." "This time, he got in." "Today we are visiting Kasungo where I'll be learning school at Kamuzo Academy." "This is my room where I will be sleeping." "To me it's very expensive" "and I didn't believe it that it's me who is here!" "I will try my best to study hard, and I will never give up." "If I go back to that very profound African concept, to say I Am Because We Are, so, here in Malawi, I am because there is somebody in America who is part of me, there's somebody in the UK who is part of me." "We are all part of this problem, the global problem and we must address it head on, together, as one." "That is the big issue." " I am because we are" "John F. Kennedy said in the most beautiful words, 'for in the final analysis our most common link is that we all inhabit this same small planet, we all breathe the same air, we all cherish our children's future, and we are all mortal." "He knew, we have a common fate, this is not an 'us versus them' fate." "I am because we are." "I am, because..." " We are" "I am..." " I am..." " I am..." "Because we are." " Am I because" "I am, because, we are." "I am because we are, is really seeing the world as one unified whole." "It's an understanding of the interconnectedness between all of us." "And that there is no difference between the children of Malawi, the children of Eastern Europe, the children of India, or the children of Palestine." "We are all children of the world." "And we are all responsible for one another." "I Am Because" " We are." "I am because we are makes us see the silliness of anyone who thinks that they are better or separate from anyone else." "When you de-humanize the other, whether you like it or not, inexorably, you are de-humanized." "You need the other person to be all they can be, in order for you to be all you can be." "And when we do think in those ways, the things we can solve together are beyond imagining." "I Am Because We Are!" "And that way, these problems become our problems." "And therefore the solutions themselves also will involve all of us in solving these issues." "You cannot say and think about the phrase Ubuntu, without acknowledging just by uttering the word, that what we have in common is more important that our interesting differences." "If you were walking somewhere, you find somebody on the road lying helpless, you might want to ask yourself a question." "If I stop, what will happen to me." "That's the wrong question." "The question should be, if I do not stop, what will happen to him." "There are ways to improve the world, there are ways that each of us can contribute." "You have to find you own way." "Maybe it is making a donation for a bed net so a child can sleep in safety." "Its certainly learning about these problems so that one can help educate one's own community." "For a student it may be choosing to study these issues, spend the gap year abroad, go to a village, it changes a life." "Most important its to understand how interconnected we are and find ways to live lives that reflect that interconnectedness, and the strength we can have on our planet if we look after each other." "We are living in a world where we have a choice." "The choice is a world that spins out of control," "or a world that together solves its problems and finds a path to peace." "I hope and pray that the work we have begun to do here in Malawi will have a lasting effect on the children here." "And the stories I have shared in this film, reflect not only the challenges that Malawi faces, but also the courage and resilience that I have witnessed in so many of the people." "I know the current government is doing it's best to right the wrongs of the past, and to respond to this state of emergency," "I also hope that anyone watching this film will feel inspired to help in anyway that they can." "While I have been outraged by many of the things I have witnessed," "I also take great comfort in knowing that people are the same everywhere." "We all bleed the same colour, we all want to look after our children," "and we all want to love and be loved." "#IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HELP ME OR ANYONE ELSE IN THIS FILM#" "#CONTINUE TO DO THEIR WORK IN MALAWI#" "#PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE#" "Please convey the message, to the States and the world at large." "#SINODE IS CURRENTLY RESPONDING WELL TO HIS ARV TREATMENT.#" "#MAVUTTO LIVES WITH HIS SECOND UNCLE AND HAS BEEN IN SCHOOL FOR ONE YEAR NOW#" "#WEIZI IS STILL LIVING AT HOME OF HOPE ORPHANAGE, AND CONTINUES HER ARV TREATMENT#" "#THE BOYS OF THE JUVENILE PRISON HAVE JUST FINISHED LEVEL ONE OF SFK#" "#AND CELEBRATED WITH A PARTY#" "#MERCY RECEIVED A SCHOLARSHIP TO ATTEND AN ALL GIRLS ACADEMY IN MALAWI#" "#LUKA'S HEALTH IMPROVES EVERYDAY.#" "#FANIZO CONTINUES HIS EDUCATION AT KAMUZU ACADEMY.#"