"My Love, Don't Cross That River" "Because I'v stayed at my daughter's house for a couple of days, there's a mess." "Because my eyes hurt and I visited an ophthalmologist, there's a mess." "If my eyes didn't hurt, this would not happen." "I visited an ophthalmologist because my eyes hurt and there's a mess." "I'm so tired" "Leave it, I'll do it." "Thank you." "Thank you" "Oh my lord" "Why are you doing this?" "Why are you doing this?" "Why?" "What is wrong with you, dear so eccentric" "Stop it, stop" "What is this?" "they are flowers." "What did you pick the flowers for?" "I like flowers." "You like it?" "Yes" "I like it, too." "You look more handsome." "You want me to put this on your ear?" "This will look better" "I'll put it here, too." "Do I look better?" "Yes, of course." "Then I'll put it on your both sides." "You look better, too." "oh I like it, you look good." "You look really handsome." "I'm so old, but you are not." "Honey, please stay here with me." "Don't go anywhere." " OK" "Please stay here." "OK" "Sing a song for me." "OK" "Don't you go anywhere." "OK" "Because I'm scared." "OK." "Sing a song." "OK" "Don't you go anywhere." "OK" "(Grandpa singing a song)" "You, too, can sing." "You can sing, you are a good company." "Aren't you cold?" "It's not cold when I'm with you." "I was worried about you because it's cold" "It's not cold" "Thank you" "(Grandpa singing)" "I'm so tired" "So tired" "Sit down and take some rest." "I'm so tired" "You had strength(energy) before." "You used to lift heavy things because you had good energy." "How do you feel now that you have no energy?" "Well, it's unpleasant." "I used to have good strength" "I have no energy left" "Get up slowly." "I'll lead the way." "As time passes, people get old." "You can't do anything about it." "I'll be 100 years old in 5 years." "If you live long enough, you could live up to 100 years." "You could live up to 100 years?" "Yes" "Who's going to cook for you?" "You should do it for me." "I have no energy." "I can't do that." "You are strong." "People say you will have good ears, if you eat snow from the first snowfall." "Please have some snow so you can have good ears and eyes." "I'll give it to you." "Take a bite." "Have some more" "It tastes good" "It's cool and good have some more" "It will be really nice if we get good eyes. ( They said 'ears' previously, but this time they said 'eyes')" "If you get good eyes" "I could hear all the little sound from that mountain." "Hooray" "I won" "No, I won, I did" "This is your mouth" "This looks just like you" "It would be nice if you could make it look pretty" "Do it like this" "Mine looks better" "My hands are freezing" "Do some more, more" "Is it warm?" "It is warm" "I was 14 years old when I met my husband, and didn't know anything about him." "He told me he was 19" "I thought he just came to help my family fixing things." "That's what I thought." "So I used to call him "Mr.", "Mr."." "I was shy to see a grown-up man." "I used to hide here and there" "When I was 9, my mom passed away." "I went through all sorts of hardships" "I cried and lived with grief" "Then I went to my wife's house and worked really, really hard for them." "for 6 years" "You didn't starve ever since you came to my house" "And then, we had some kids and we made a living with kids and then I lived without knowing what loneliness was" "There you go" "Mom~" "What's all that?" "How have you been?" "You've been doing well?" "hope you make more money in the future" "Happy new year" "I hope you do well in the future too" "Happy new year" "This little cunning one wants the new year's gift(money) of course a little kiss" "My Seol-lahn" "Are you a good student?" "You've grown a lot" "What is this" "You want to try some?" "Red one is yours" "I love you." "I love you." "I love you" "When she saw dried persimmons on a TV show she said "I want that"" "and then he disappeared" "When we checked where he was" "He's already gone to buy the dried persimmons" "Who does that in these days?" "No one" "They make such a good couple" "Gosh, you know my father is here and I'm his daughter" "My father's youngest sibling and I have the same age." "So my mom and grandmother gave birth in the same year." "I really thank that both of you have lived for a long time" "Father, do you like it?" "Yes, I like it." "how much?" "(this much)" "Gosh, it's cold" "OH, it's cold" "Hey~~" "Because you threw pebbles at me" "Not sure if it's salty or not cause I have a cold" "looks delicious" "Does it look delicious?" "I made this for you to eat" "I want you to have it a lot and get some energy so you can visit senior centre" "Is the saltiness ok?" "it's good" "The rice is heavy" "Tastes better?" "He's never said "it doesn't taste good"." "If it doesn't taste good, he just eat little" "If it's good, he eats a lot." "And then he says "what a delicious meal"" "I'm so glad when he eats well" "How did you drag the house all the way here?" "She was on the way to the pastor's house." "He dragged the house." "There's the male dog." "She wanted to go there." "Gong-soon(dog) likes my husband so much" "If he's with her, she really likes it." "Gong-soon and GGoma like him" "My husband likes them too" "I named her Gong-soon because I got her for free(Gong-jja = for free)." "I asked "What did you name her?"" "and he said "I'll just name her Gong-soon since I got her for free"" "That's why she's called "Gong-soon"." "GGoma got her name because she was a girl and pretty" "He named her "GGoma"." "Because she's little. (GGoma = little one)" "He spends so much time with dogs." "he barely talks" "I have bad ears." "You don't talk that much" "I asked you to sing a song because I'm so bored." "Shall I do that or not?" "You need to care about me come on" "Sing some good one" "You told me you knew a lot of good songs." "(Grandpa singing)" "You are good." "you think so too?" "you're good." "sing a song too" "People at the senior centre will go on a picnic tomorrow" "To Jong-sun" "A lot of people are going." "It's just a picnic but several buses are rented." "It hurts here." "You haven't seen it before?" "Take a look." "I feel good." "Dear (she calls him literally "grandpa")" "It feels good when you blow with a whiff." "What a beautiful bird" "The wagtail is chirping." "If I'm born again, I want to be an oriole." "A yellow oriole." "On the mountain, high up there, (bird sound)" "It would be really nice if I became a yellow oriole." "Listen to me." "Which one is the most beautiful bird?" "beautiful?" "Yes, which one?" "The best one is the Meoksae(edible + bird)." "What is Meoksae?" "Meoksae" "Birds that you can eat." "You only care about eating." "Meoksae is the best?" "Where are you going?" "Where are you going?" "Then you are a bird." "You are Meoksae." "Meoksae" "Didn't know there was Meoksae." "Looks really good" "Your arms are getting thinner." "I'll scratch here for you." "I turn off the light at 10pm." "To save money on electricity." "But he doesn't let me turn it off." "He doesn't want the light off." "I can go to sleep better when the light is off." "I think he does that because he's sick." "I met him when I was 14." "It snowed when I met him." "He wouldn't touch me even after we got married." "He didn't want me to get hurt didn't want me to get hurt" "He was waiting for me to get old enough so I could put my arms around him." "I think about it these days and thank him." "And then he started to touch me." "He touched my ears and caressed me again and again." "And it became his habits." "He needs to touch me to go to sleep." "After we got married, when my age got 15, 16 and 17," "I put myself in his arms first and then I learned how "sleeping with a husband" works." "It's so good to get cleaned." "Let's take some rest here, ah..." "Welcome~" "Age is the enemy." "He wasn't like this last year." "He can't catch his breath since this winter." "He's getting old." "You look great" "Thank you" "How old are you, Mrs.?" "Me?" "78" "You are not that old." "You are just a newlywed." "78 is a newlywed." "These are for kids." "6 kids, one boy." "Then I need to buy 5 for the girls." "I want something big." "So it's not for adults, it's for kids?" "Yes, but I want to buy bigger size for them." "This is for 3 years old." "This is for 6 years old." "Give me something pretty." "How many 3 years old kids are there?" "3 years old... 3 six-years-old kids" "3 three-years-old kids." "oh yeah?" "the bigger the better the bigger the better" "I like something ample" "Here you go, 6 of them." "right?" "These are for boys." "5 of these are for girls" "I gave birth to 12 children and I lost 6 of them." "When I was in my prime" "I lost my 6 years old kid." "I lost my 3 years old kid during the Korean war." "Measles took one too." "I was going to buy them before" "I've never forgotten about them." "These are pants." "Looks nice?" "Looks nice, huh?" "Does it look nice?" "These are underclothes for Spring and Fall." "I couldn't buy these for Keel-hyoung before." "It lingers on my mind." "Whoever goes first when they come to see you clothe them in these." "If you go first, clothe them in these." "yeah?" "Tell them "your mom bought them"" "Because I couldn't buy one of these for them, it lingers on my mind." "I couldn't clothe them in these underclothes." "Looks nice?" "This is for" "my Nam-hee, Nam-hee" "These are for Nam-hee who passed away." "I couldn't clothe them in these" "It weighs heavily on my mind" "There are a bunch of these at the market." "But still, I couldn't clothe them in these." "These are for Nam-hee, Nam-hee." "Nam-hee Jo" "I couldn't buy these for them." "These look so nice." "It would be much better if I clothed them when they were alive." "I bought 6 of these." "6 of these" "I want to hang that" "No, we can't do it." "I've done it before please, let's hang it later" "It's ok to hang it later" "Oh boy, it's heavy" "When Geum-ja comes over, tell her to hang it she should be here any minute now" "Come on, I told you" "Gosh, he doesn't listen to me." "It's getting in" "The hole is small it fitted before" "No, this hole is too small for the nail" "It's not small, they fitted each other before oh my, what's going on" "He's upset" "It looks like it's fitting in" "There you go" "You gotta lower it down a little" "You want me to put this Kimchi here?" "alright, alright" "How adorable" "Happy birthday to you" "Happy birthday dear grandma" "Happy birthday to you" "blow out them harder" "Take this Codonopsis root, Sung-eun" "We gotta eat it first, it's not for sharing yet." "How could you say that already" "They will take the leftovers, no worries." "take them after putting it on the lunch table" "Mom wouldn't eat it if you leave it here." "I'm not taking any." "I brought this." "Why would I take any." "Anyway, make some lunch and take care of it." "Making a meal for the parents only happens twice a year." "I live with my mother-in-law too." "I treat them really well" "Bluish Shirt :" "When I live with you(mother, father) one showing her back :" "Don't even start with "living with parents"" "Bluish :" "Do you know how stressful it is?" "Living with parents-in-laws?" "Bluish :" "They don't have much time to live." "Bluish :" "Treat this as a last visit and let's have family lunch." "Bluish :" "Let's eat out in future" "Oldest son : but why you talk so much?" "Oldest son : we are leaving and why you talk so much?" "Oldest son:" "The oldest(first) son is here" "Oldest son:" "You are just the oldest daughter." "Oldest son:" "The oldest son is here and you talk like that?" "Bluish :" "I'll be honest with you" "Oldeset son: about what?" "Why are you like that?" "you seemed happy." "Bluish :" "Did you pay a visit to mom and dad when they were sick?" "Bluish :" "Did you even try to give them a call?" "Bluish :" "How would you feel when your oldest son did the same?" "The wife :" "What is wrong with you guys?" "Bluish :" "I brought this up because it upset me so bad." "Bluish :" "Did you ever take them to the hospital once?" "Oldest son :" "Yes" "Bluish :" "When they were sick, did you ever make any meals for them?" "Bluish :" "Did you ever make one single phone call?" "Oldest son:" "Did you make them any meals?" "Bluish :" "Yes, I did." "Bluish :" "I did." "Oldest son :" "Don't you dare talk to me like that oldest :" "Want me to hit you?" "oldest :" "You want me to hit you?" "Bluish :" "Go ahead" "Bluish :" "I didn't talk to you impolitely" "Bluish's daughter :" "Mom, you don't talk to your brother like that" "Bluish : you gotta act like you are the oldest son" "What are you doing?" "Bluish's daughter :" "Mom, Grandpa wants you to stop" "ok, stop it" "It's mom's birthday" "take that collar off" "Take it off." "Why don't you take that off?" "Take it off" "Yes, take that off" "you poor thing" "GGoma, GGoma" "poor little thing, poor little thing" "Didn't know he was going to die like that" "I had no idea" "I can't see him again" "Our GGoma" "GGoma~~" "I worried about GGoma looking for my husband after he died." "But GGoma died first." "My husband will go later" "I'll follow him after" "If my husband goes, I will be alone, with Gong-soon" "She's pregnant." "She's lying on the ground like that since she's pregnant." "Lying on the ground, panting like that poor thing" "It reminds me of the time I was pregnant." "I think there are 6 or 7 puppies." "If she gave birth, I would give puppies to the pastor." "She's tied to her house." "The pastor let his dog running around and his dog did it to her." "If it were my dog, I would take the puppies." "I'd have no choice." "But I wouldn't raise them" "Do you think you can make it?" "Can you make it?" "Do you think you can make it today?" "If you can't, we go back home" "If you can't make it, just stay home" "I want to go" "It's all done" "Thank you" "How long have you been married?" "75 years?" "76 years?" "I met him when I was 14" "Are you two the same age?" "No, I'm 89 he's 98" "He's hale and hearty" "No, he's not it hurts" "I'm scared" "oh, I'm so scared" "You can't take this at your age?" "Oh, come on." "We didn't do anything." "going to be prickly" "It's all done" "I was so scared" "I was suffering and you just sit here and didn't say a word" "You should've told the doctor to treat me without pain" "You didn't say anything" "Dad, let's go to the hospital" "Dad" "We've been to the big hospital and they said medicine wouldn't work cause he's too old" "Told me to leave him comfortably" "I already went to the hospital with him." "Told me to just make him comfortable." "because he's too old" "They will give us medicine if we ask but it has no effect on him" "Dad, don't get sick" "Dad" "You must eat" "You must eat to live" "The hospital told them not to come" "No medicine for him becase he's too old" "They said no yes, that's what they said." "Come tomorrow so you can see father when he's alive" "I'm trying to call everyone" "Dad, I know you went through a lot" "I know what you went through" "Father" "I'm really sorry for things I haven't done for you sorry for breaking your heart" "I'm sorry dad" "I'll be good to you from now on father" "I'm really sorry for what I've done" "You need to burn these so the deceased could wear them" "When he passes away, I'll burn clean ones." "I'm sorting out the ones that he used to wear" "If I burn them all at once, it will be too heavy for him to carry" "He doesn't know if these are for Winter or Summer" "He doesn't know." "I have to look after him." "I'll follow your way soon" "You go there first and arrange things for me" "If I can't go that early" "You should come and bring me with you." "If you come, then I'll grab your hands" "We can wear the matching couple pants wearing the same yellow jacket" "Let's hold hands together and go" "Where does it hurt?" "Does it hurt a lot?" "Gong-soon is blessed don't move a muscle" "She doesn't move at all" "They just look like mouses" "Their mouths look like mouses' too." "So red." "How many?" "6" "so excited because they are so cute" "you know how we" "tied her to her house and the pastor's dog came and this happened" "I think I'll bring all the puppies to the pastor" "I'll give all the puppies to him" "Give him all" "You want me to do it now?" "After they get old" "I want to give him the puppies now you need to wait until they grow up until they grow up?" "Let's spank the dog when he comes smack him in the face he takes a shit in our property" "He just takes a shit and runs away when Gong-soon is having fun" "He's ugly" "That ugly one irritates me" "Have no idea why he is so ugly." "That freaking stupid dog." "Damn dog." "This one is a boy" "This one's a girl." "Why this girl is so big" "I raised 3 sons and 3 daughters" "My Gong-soon also has 3 sons and 3 daughters" "Good job,Gong-soon you lost some weight you look so skinny" "I can feel your bones" "How cute" "look so cute so cute" "Go to grandpa" "you little one" "The light's on" "Please live 3 more month" "Even If you live only 3 more months like this, I will be really glad." "When I say 'let's go together'" "He says 'yes'" "When I say "let's go together dear"" "he says "yes, let's go"" "I'll be happy if we can do that" "If I can hold his hand and go over a pass beyond the bridge." "It'll be really nice." "Neighbors will wave their hands at us and I'll wave back to them to say goodbyes" "If we go together like that." "Wouldn't it be awesome?" "Flowers, trees, and others things are just the same as humans." "That leave will bloom in the Spring, too and live through the Summer" "When it frosts in the fall, they will fall" "Humans are the same" "When we are young, we are in full blossom." "It will be great if we stay like that." "But when we get old, we shrink and fall." "Falling means over." "Falling means over" "If you meet our kids there" "They will come for you" "If they come, clothe them in these" "You promised me before" "Take this with you and wear it when the next Spring comes" "When the next Spring comes and it gets warm, wear this." "This is your sweatshirts" "Wear it when it gets warm." "Be good even if I'm not with you" "Wash your face" "Stay clean dear even if I'm not with you" "Although you miss me, you need to wait." "I'm waiting too even if I miss you" "Dear, I'm going home" "I'm going home you take care" "I know it's cold but wait a little more." "My Love, Don't Cross That River" "May Byeong-man Jo(the husband), who is the eternal lover of Kye-yeol Kang(the wife), rest in peace"